"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Well after close to a year away from this place I'm back again...From the 2 years since I started visiting this place until now the change has been real good for me. All I can say to all you new AFC's punk arses is is read that DJBible...soak up all that you can, take a hiatus and try the stuff. Live it, Understand it, DO IT!! ACTION is Key to being a Man.

I won't say I'm the mack daddy player, cause that just ain't my thang, but this place has made a huge difference in my life!

I've gone from practically a social butterfly that rarely got a date unless it was arranged for me to lots of dates, female friends and a few relationships? a couple lasted 3 months and then 6 months and the one I just let go lasted almost a year. Still learning but man my life is going in the right direction, and not just dating. More importantly then women I've advanced a few times in my chosen career and refound my true passion in life.

Anyway, just wanted to share a little positive energy with this place and I'll be around throwing out my thoughts here and there again.

----->Allright so my question is.... You just broke up with a girl after almost a year, you had her hooked up on your mobile account thats in your name. She still has close to 2 years left in her contract and she's paying the bill. Do you disconnect it? knowing you have to pay a couple hundred $$ fee or let her go on with it as long as she pays up her share??
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I'd bludgeon her to death with the phone. But that's just me.
 

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Yeah...

I've definitely done that in my imagination more than a couple times...I believe I'll cut her phone off, pay the bill and take the loss of $$ just so I can cut her completely loose. Just curious how others would handle it.
 

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If it is in your name and you will be liable for any expenses that a vindictive person might ring up ...
 
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Why don't you just give her your sim card?

That way she can keep paying the bill, and has the certainty that you're not going to spend money on the contract and disappear. Plus you get a new number (that she doesn't have!) - seems like the perfect opportunity for a clean break.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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