"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Baby sitting date?

Raikojo17

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long story short, this girl im talking too said that she is not free for friday because she is baby sitting. she then suggest that i come and help her. lol we joke about it, but she did say she was serious. i still dont kno if she was even tho she gave me the place and the time. however, i never considered watching a bunch of kids as a first date. would this make a good idea? i need some insight.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Infraction

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Depends on the girl, if she really speical unique and sexy then why not?
But she is just a plain jane id never do it.
 

da_hunter

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Is it her kids? If you really like this girl, then do it. Focus on winning over the kids and you will be in like flynn with the mom.
 

God_of_getting_layed

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I suggest you go over and have the kid shes baby sitting go to his/her room and then fvck her on the couch in the living room.

Anyone ever remember that happening? you know your mom hired a baby sitter while shes out, then the babysitter invites some guy over and they fvck on the couch while you were sent to your room? Thats never happened to me, but I have heard stories about it. pretty funny tho.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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