"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Baby Momma issues

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MarkHammond

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Look my baby moms is 19 years old which is fairly young. She used to be real clingy until i urged her to chill with her friends and stuff because it isnt healthy to be under me all the time. Now she is going out more and hanging with her friends and its great but now I feel like I should just step off for a while and enjoy this while it lasts. I dont want her to get to comfortable with her friends and start doin the wrong thing. But will she get clingy again if I give her this space?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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why dont you just make coffee on your way out?
 
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She's chilling with friends...and you're "stepping off".



Who's watching the baby?:confused:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You mean she will get clingy again if you 'don't give her this space. This isn't that latina you were dating which you referred to in your last post, is she?

Why can't she still hang out with her friends but not 'party' - is it the going out to party that is bothering you?
 
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where is markhammond?

nothing like posting a thread and not getting the benefit of advice.
 
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ok a lil update. I recently graduated college so I have been focused on gettin a job and taking care of our daughter. My baby moms being only 19 wants to do all the things like go out eat and stuff. So recently she tells me that she has been going out with some dude who spends money on her and treats her to food and stuff. lol She says she not gonna have sex with him because she wants to continue having sex with me she just likes the fact that he does all them other things. Now me personally view this dude as a lifesaver because I love her as my daughters mother but i really dont have time for all that bf gf sh!t. So im thinking I should just cut her off sexually and just take care of my kid. What yall think?
 
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What do I think?

I think your child is going to need therapy. There is no substitue for having parents that love and are commited to each other.

You did ask what we thought.
 
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Originally posted by Eileen
What do I think?

I think your child is going to need therapy. There is no substitue for having parents that love and are commited to each other.

You did ask what we thought.
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Hellooooooo professor !!

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Eileen
What do I think?

I think your child is going to need therapy. There is no substitue for having parents that love and are commited to each other.

You did ask what we thought.
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I think Eileen brought up a very good point and we shouldn't discount how important a two parent family is to the development of child. The first five years are instrumental to what kind of adult your child will become. Pushing your girlfriend into other guys just so you don't have to deal with the boyfriend/girlfriend issues is doing a diservice to your child's development. Your child needs to see and be part of a loving relationship.

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