"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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"baby mama drama"

If and when should I reveal that I have a baby?

  • First Date

    Votes: 3 42.9%

  • Second Date

    Votes: 1 14.3%

  • Third Date

    Votes: 1 14.3%

  • Fourth or later

    Votes: 2 28.6%
  • Total voters
    7
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I am a new member to this site and I recently became single. I am 24 years old and a student. I had been dating this girl for like 3 years off and on and started dating her when she was a senior in high school(i was 19). We both moved away from our hometown to a major "party school" and both joined a fraternity/sorority. After a year and a half of breakups and makeups at school, she became pregnant(by me of course). So after much shock and disbelief she decided(with my encouragement) to keep the baby and we decided to leave our friends and college and move back to our hometown. Fast forward to now and our daughter is 6 months old and our relationship has been destroyed by our differences on many things. Now to get to the point of this post...I am now single and i attend a commuter school and have started to meet girls at school and other places. I am very apprehensive about how college aged single girls will respond to the fact that i have a baby daughter. I havent actually started dating anyone yet but i am trying to initiate something with this really hot(a 10 for sure) chick i met at the rec/gym at school. I dont know at what point I should reveal that i am a dad and if/how i should hide it until that point or what. if anyone has experience in this area or has advice to give please help..

booqs
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The time you get to the fourth date its probably a serious relationship and eventually the girl finds out everything so its best to tell her at the first date so she understands what she is going to get herself into, its really harsh to lay it on her once she has "fallen" inlove with you.
 
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just go on and tell her
show her a picture

why the heck not? why hide it?
looks bad to hide it...
looks like a good daddy to be proud of her...
 
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Why hide it, those girls will only find out anyways. And they will think of you as less for not mentioning that you have a child.

I know a guy who takes his daughter everywhere he goes and it attracts all kinds of hot babes to him.

You should never be ashamed of having kids.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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While men typically are not attracted to women who have other men's babies (unless the biological father is dead) to encourage you, women are attracted to single men who have children *and maybe* have a stable background (life, place of his own.)

Mention yourself having a child right away in hints ("I'm late because I hate to drop off my daughter" or "I can meet you at this place after my daughter gets picked up after school")

If she rejects you, fine.
 
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