Hello fellows. I recall one of our members had a link to baby makin music. I forgot about that, but suddenly remembered it. Now im curious if any of u have that same link... or perhaps suggestions of your own. Thank you in advance gentlemen 
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.