"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Baby/boyish face advantage/disadvantage?

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I was 18 look 12 now im older look 14 lol.

I have noticed now that I made effort to go out this can be great advatnage. It seems girls feel safe and comfortable around you and will even start to talk to you.

I alwyas avoided clubs and girls and women cause I looked young but now I made slight more effort I think it can work well.

However, it sucks in terms off being tough, respected etc..

I alwyas lift weights and eat lots of food to make me bigger/older.

But as for girls boyish can work...well its better than being an ugl or average man but not as good as being handsome.

I seem to attract small cute quiet type girls maybe for relationship and more womenly women will be interested for a laugh/fling.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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San Jose California said:
It's definitely a disadvantage if you're a guy. Anyone who disagrees is a moron.

No homo, but when you see a high school senior dude that looks like a freshman, does that turn you on or off? Enough said.
Well When I was 18 it defo wokred against me I was unnoticeable to girls. Being 5'10 115lbs never helped also.

Well now Im in my 20s I seem to be getting a lot of female attention. Im like 140lbs now and they prob think Im about 18-20 now?


the good looking dudes at 18 prob look a lot worse into their late 20s 30s????

However....what about:

Leo Di Caprio
Justin Beiber
Zac Effron
River Phoneix

etc.etc....

Being child looking never worked against them in their youth!!!

then again if you look like McLovin then lololol....

Also, fwiw I find many schoolgirls seem to like me lol..so if you like Jailbait thats a plus AND some older chicks digg you just cause they are pervs...
 

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Ya dude, cause you're totally in the same social category as those guys! Also what happened to your hair thinning? I have yet to see a dude who looks 14 who is balding. Would be interesting.
 

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It depends. Boyish face + muscular body = dynamite for the ladies. But boyish face + scrawny body = huge flop.

Also it depends on age too. When you're younger, having a boyish face is a disadvantage. But starting from your mid to late 20s, it can be an advantage because a lot of guys start to age (balding etc. )
 
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joverby said:
Ya dude, cause you're totally in the same social category as those guys! Also what happened to your hair thinning? I have yet to see a dude who looks 14 who is balding. Would be interesting.
AND This is why I cant go bald FML..

Looking boyish+hair loss+skinny= disaster

ANyway regarldess social category..justin beiber, young leo di caprio etc...woudl be drowing in ***** even if they were not famous just ordinary guys at college. All the cute girls woudl go for them
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I have the advantage of a boy-ish face. I'm 28 right now, and people guess 22-23. As I get older, my face stays about 5-6 years behind. It may start paying off in the long run.
 

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It gets better. Someone recently told my dad he looked like he was in his late thirties, in actual fact he is already 50. Ahh, the benefits of boyish face genes.
 
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if u have a boyish face then u can't change it so why do u care so much?
 
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