Babes and the looks I get sometimes

[Mr.Hash wid da Stash]

Hey all,
Ok this has been confusing me somewhat. Say I go down town and there is, occasionally, a babe that eyes me and I just eye her back for like 5 seconds and then chicken out and look away.

But I heard if a chick digs a guy, she'll look at him, but then when she sees the guy looking back she'll quickly look away. So what does it mean when they don't look away when I look back?

Thanks fellas.

 

[squirrels]

It means you're spending WAY too much time obsessing over signs that MAY or MAY NOT mean something and not enough time acting.

 

[Revlis]

So what does it mean when they don't look away when I look back?

It means she's not insecure.

As you make eye contact say hi. Then if they say hi back start a conversation if you can. Remember to try and do this under 3 seconds.

 

[Mr.Hash wid da Stash]

Thanks, but why do I have to do it under 3 seconds??

 

[felony]

YOU my friend should definately read the bible before doing anything else. See that link up in the top right hand corner of the screen?

Press it and get real busy reading til your eyes explode.

I've just helped you more than you can imagine!

cheers,
felony.

 

[Revlis]

To reduce hesitation since hesitation causes us to screw up. Also you won't have to time to let fear buildup inside of you.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

make sure it was u she was looking at and not staring at the car accident behind u - once this is confirmed then just approach her and say u have the most penettrating eyes do u like what u see - if she says yes then tell her the feeling is mutual

 

[Mr.Hash wid da Stash]

ok then I'll say "hi" if she says "hello" back then how does a dude proceed with a conversation with a girl he just passed on the street? since i know nothing about her, it seems tricky.

By the way has anyone here ever suceeded with these cold walk up approaches on strangers on the street?

 

[DYDevotee]

My my my, it looks like someone is missing the point. Your mistake is being the first to look away, it demonstrates your insecurity, you even said it yourself, you "chicken-out." Kind of like when I "hulk-out," but I usually kick a lot more ass when I'm the Hulk then you do as a chicken I'm willing to bet.

Also, forget the stupid 3 second rule, "oh no, it's been 3.5 seconds, she'll never talk to me now" That "rule" is only there to help people get over their insecurity of being able to go up and talk to a woman, the sooner they do it, the less chance a guy would be able to freak himself out thinking about it.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

i gave u a good intro now u want me to give u the whole conversation - i might as well go after the chick myself

next step get her name!!!!
give her your name!!!!

exchange pleasantriies - b funny - pick a topic based on what she is or where she is at -- for example - if u see her in a parking lot with shopping bags - u talk about her shopping experience - like did u make a few updates to your wardrobe? (pointing to bags in her hand) - if she says no i was just picking up some things for the welfare and benefit of my children - then u immediately turn around and haul aasssss like you tole something from her!!! and don't look back - looking back slows your speed down and u might run into something!!!!

 

[Revlis]

The 3 second rule as you pointed out DYDevotee is to help people get over their insecurity of being able to talk to women. That's why I pointed it out to use since it sounds like he needs help in that area.

He can take as long as he wants to approach her but it helps to approach as soon as possible to ward of any insecurities or self doubts in your head. We don't want him to look desperate by him standing there thinking if he should approach or not, do we?

Just a technique he can try to see if it helps him approach more often and with less doubts.

 

[duke007]

It's true that it is a bit harder in Australia, but I have done a few with moderate success. Situational openers are easy enough to pull off

Walden has done plenty in New Zealand though so just keep trying