"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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B*tches = hoes

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We all know that as we grow up we're taught to treat ladies well. Ladies first, don't hit girls, etc.

Now what do girls learn? Check out this excerpt from The Mack Within by Tariq Nasheed:

"Daughters, on the other hand, are taught the exact opposite.
When mothers school their daughters on how to deal with men,
the term respect isn't even part of their vocabulary. Daughters are
told: "You have to use what you got to get what you want," "Don't
get with a man who can't get nothing for you," "You better get as
much as you can while you can," etc."

The first time I read it I didn't really mentally process it. I just read it again and I can comprehend it better now because I got rejected about 8 times last night for the most superficial crap ever. It seems these girls really have disney-world fantasies when it comes to guys.

As I read th excerpt I remembered this incident where I met a girl and she wanted to know what I had to offer her.

I now see that my mistake was caused by an incomplete view of the situation. I had assumed the wrong frame. Of course most of the Don Juans know that we should assume high value and qualify girls for what they can offer us. Anyway, I didn't have much money, so I got shy and told her I didn't have much to offer.

In the current mood I'm in, I think it would have been much smarter to go in to offence there and say: "what do you want? Money??", and try and tease her about being a Ho.

Sometimes at work girls don't have change, so I might make a joke like: "why don't you give a guy a kiss for some money?", and they actually laugh when I make jokes like this, implying that they would sell themselves like that.

It shows that women think like prostitutes in general. If you know a girl who doesn't think like a ho, she soon will, if she spends enough time in the game.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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It's mostly just getting the fantasy vision of females out of OUR minds. They're not sweet, innocent, delicate little angel flowers who can do no wrong, and aren't victimized for no reason at all. This is only how they want to be perceived, and they play the role very well. This can mess us up.

Just gotta weed through the bull**** charade, and see them for who they really are. Some of them even try to get you blinded by their BS, so that you CAN'T see who they really are. These types are generally on the offensive at all times - while acting as though they're victims in self-defense. Now, its justified. A ***** is a ***** is a *****. There is no excuse or justification for this, and they aren't owed or entitled to anything. Sympathizing with them is how most people fall for their BS - only to be controlled and manipulated to no end. That's what some of them want, and strive to acquire right away.

What makes it difficult is the manner in which they accomplish this - mostly through deception. Things like playing games, messing with your mind, not accepting responsibility for anything, blaming someone else, playing the victim, using misdirection, denying, making up excuses for everything they do wrong (while still doing wrong), etc. Virtually anything it takes to keep their falsified innocent image going.

Gotta always keep your eyes and ears open; pay attention to who they really are, and not fall for their BS. Don't ever make it all about them, or take their side - because they're only telling you how they want things to be perceived, and to put themselves in the best light possible for every situation.

They will always make themselves out to be the innocent nice girl victims in a world full of evil monsters - as they're manipulating you relentlessly, acting selfish and using people, whoring around, treating people like garbage, etc. They'll try to justify this kind of behavior, as well. Or, the kind of people they seek after - due to their own shallowness - as they make up excuses not to date a decent guy - then turn around and play the helpless victim who had NO choice but to date an ******* for 18 years straight. Please. It was all your choice, and your shallowness that caused this.

It becomes easier once you realize the reality of what's going on, and how they operate. Playing the victim, especially, is a major tool used by manipulators - to enable their selfishness and entitlement. But, again, that's why you pay attention to what's going on, and focus on the facts. They can't pull a quick one if you know their games already, and won't allow yourself to be controlled or manipulated. Things like guilt trips and being called selfish when you won't allow yourself to be used. Don't let them turn things around you, or sympathize with them.

The biggest hurdle is accepting reality - once you realize it - without becoming bitter over it, or turning the same way yourself. It's better to use this knowledge to weed out the trash - rather than use it against everyone. That just makes you trash. Justifying it by claiming everyone else is trash, and that you have no choice, is the same thing trash does.

I hate people.
 

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I don't understand your thought process. How does a woman laughing at the joke imply they they would want money for kisses?
And even if it did, (which is doesn't), how would that then show that women think like prostitutes?

It looks like you failing with women = women are prostitutes.
 

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a major difference between men and women today is that men are expected and encouraged to defer to women, while feminism indoctrinates women to stand up as a strong female and live life on her own terms

women today will rarely speak openly of performing housework, while many men will mention their "honey do" lists and say things like "i better check with the boss"

the fact is that women are strong and tough, and treating them as if they are less than that is demeaning
 

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Lol it reminds me of another incident. Check out this quick n easy guilt trip that was pulled on me within 2 seconds.

I had just exited the club. I find a 5 euro bill in my pocket, whip it out, and exclaim that I found a 5. A girl standing next to me tries to grab it, and I quickly pull it away, and give her a questioning look. Immediately her friend says: "you're so distrusting!". The other girl explained she just wanted to look at it. So I let her hold the 5 euro bill for a second, and then she was satisfied.

It also shows the mindset girls have. As soon as I have money, a girl has to see if she can get it from me. If she can, fun's over. If she can't, then she's got an "*******" she can complain about who only cares about sex.

The only way to get women to respect you, is by NOT giving in to them. That's why the 2 girls walked off. I satisfied them too easily just by letting them look at the 5 euro bill. See, my MAN-brain said, if she wants to look at it, she can look at it. She didn't want to "look at it" though. She wanted to see if I would do what she said. Little did I know that you can please girls by denying them what they want.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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No. You're looking way too much into this.

A disturbing girl tried to snatch your money out of your hand. This girl is NOT "all women". This action of hers doesn't actually reflect on the entirety of the female gender. The same as your actions, as a male, do not represent those of all men everywhere.

This is like me getting mugged by a black guy and coming away saying "I know how black guys think now! All black guys will try to steal your money!"
 

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Halcyonique said:
How does a woman laughing at the joke imply they they would want money for kisses?
And even if it did, (which is doesn't), how would that then show that women think like prostitutes?
Them laughing doesn't mean I was spot-on and that they wanted to sell their lips. It just means that they accept the fact that they could always potentially do that.

She didn't laugh because it's absurd. She laughed because it's true.

Girls are taught from their young years that they should use their body to the fullest to get what they can out of men. To make use of their sexuality, etc.

The acceptance of the idea that once a girl gets a quality man, she has to use her snatch to milk him dry because it won't last long, makes a woman think like a prostitute.

It's only the girl who doesn't expect special treatment for looking pretty and/or spending time with a guy who doesn't think like a prostitute.

Edit: In short: the assumption that they deserve to get monetary gains from their relationships with men makes women think like prostitutes. Men and women can both sell their bodies for cash. The difference is, that statistically, women are willing to do it much more readily. A contributing factor might be the bright idea that they deserve compensation just for dealing with men.
 
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OP please tell me this is a really ****ty troll attempt

Otherwise there is no hope for you
 

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Like I said: the assumption that they deserve to get monetary gains for their relationships with men makes women think like prostitutes.

I'm not saying all women think like that. I'm just saying B*tches do, because they're selfish and opportunistic.
 

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This forum is starting to be overrun by a bunch of closet homos. Go start a colony of homosexuals and live happily ever after.

For us men, we'll learn how to distinguish the regular girls from the trash. It's not the girls fault you don't learn and aren't keen enough to pick up on their tactics after the fact they used you.

Like they say, it's the natural order of things. In the end, you were the chump who never and could never come out on top.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Michele said:
This forum is starting to be overrun by a bunch of closet homos. Go start a colony of homosexuals and live happily ever after.

For us men, we'll learn how to distinguish the regular girls from the trash. It's not the girls fault you don't learn and aren't keen enough to pick up on their tactics after the fact they used you.

Like they say, it's the natural order of things. In the end, you were the chump who never and could never come out on top.
Why do you have to make this into a personal attack while we could just discuss whether I was right or wrong?

I was trying to spread some knowledge on the fact women are taught by their mothers to expect men to give them stuff in return for the time they spend with men. I don't have a sister, so I don't know what mothers teach their children. These incidents happened to me months ago. I read a paragraph which helped me understand it better, and that's why I wanted to spread the knowledge.

I can see a quality girl when it's in front of me, I just haven't managed to seduce one and keep one. That's why I'm here.
 

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Michele said:
This forum is starting to be overrun by a bunch of closet homos. Go start a colony of homosexuals and live happily ever after.

For us men, we'll learn how to distinguish the regular girls from the trash. It's not the girls fault you don't learn and aren't keen enough to pick up on their tactics after the fact they used you.

Like they say, it's the natural order of things. In the end, you were the chump who never and could never come out on top.
This made me laugh quite hard... Even though it was insultful towards the both of us. But alas, the lesson was already learned. Just sharing the knowledge.

It's not even a gender thing. It's a certain type of person you need to look out for - regardless of its a friend, lover, acquaintance, co-worker... They all pull the same crap on people. Being blinded by infatuation can definitely mess you up in this regard. No one special. Etc. It also affects you more when a person you're into pulls this stuff, so its more bothersome when a female does it. Quite the opposite of being a homo.
 

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Chamber36 said:
Them laughing doesn't mean I was spot-on and that they wanted to sell their lips. It just means that they accept the fact that they could always potentially do that.

She didn't laugh because it's absurd. She laughed because it's true.
Really? And how do you know that?
They could have laughed for any number of reasons not associated with your conclusion. If I'd have said a similar thing about you, would you have laughed? You may have done. You may not have done. Keep courtesy laughs in mind. They may also have felt awkward, nervous or even offended, and laughed to actually be polite to you.

Yes, they could earn money through kissing guys or whatever, become a prostitute, what does it actually matter though? It doesn't mean they WANT to. What would it matter if they did?
 

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That doesn't necessarily mean that woman are just golddiggers. It's the natural order of life. A man is supposed to provide for a woman. If YOUR game was right then you could have easily provided with these girls with your mouthpiece and could have gotten these girls. Don't take the easy way out and say that all girls are b*tches or h0es. What you need to do is work on your game and you will see a big difference in the way woman talk to you.

You seem to be more of a class clown then anything else.
 

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I'll agree, I have to work on a lot of aspects of my game. I got plenty of stuff to take care of. This thread has helped me to re-prioritize those things. So thanks for your advice AJ.

But being a class-clown isn't all bad you know. If you're a class clown with balls, they'll still be attracted. You can demonstrate risk-taking behavior by making jokes about other dudes for example. It shows superior social knowledge and also some fearlessness.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I suppose there is a survival reason for women to act in this way hence we arent all that different from the time we populated the caves. No wonder they always try to run away to the biggest and the baddest barbarian there is around.... Just take a moment and imagine what the dating life would be for a caveman. It does make a lot of sense, when you take this model and transfer it into today's reality.

No way this is an excuse to justify the way women operate sometimes as Floyd has described. Put the blame on the "crooked timber of humanity".
 
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