"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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B!tch didn't phase me

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Basicly she invited me over to her flat, early morning, I guess when noone is there.

Hint hint its on.

We met like 4 times, we make out I fingered her in the forest. She a psycho tho, really low selfesteem too and a bad-luck bish.

At some point when Im on her, we're making out, clothes are on I try to take her shirt off she goes cold lol and starts acting distant.

Maybe I didnt give her enough time to warm up although she was panting heavily while I kissed her collarbone and neck.

Not overanalyzing this ****, I'm willing to give her one more chance then shes out....
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She better have sucked you dry for that ****!! Wow what a tease!
 

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Purefilth said:
She better have sucked you dry for that ****!! Wow what a tease!
It might have to do something about me teasing her last time we met, lol she was prolly angry :crackup:

We were in the forest visiting some forsaken WWII bunkers and I was just touching around her lips with my lips and she got pretty annoyed rofl, then I think she wanted me to finger her but instead I said " how bout the opposite this time hmm you get all the fun ", then she stopped talking bout it, we made out for a bit and left. :crackup:

And on our last meeting I mentioned in the original post, she again was hitting me with relationship lines O_O " are we friends or are we a couple ", then she goes on to mention there is a guy 29 that wants to date her. I think I managed that right by saying something along the lines of : Whatever, you'll do what you want. Smiled and kept talking like nothing happened.
 
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