"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Awww Here It Goes!!!

Thatdude8708

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So uhh, I had a female coming over yesterday and of course when I text her telling her what time to come over she flaked on me claiming that she had to do something for her mom, and that she should have told me earlier etc. Anyways after I didn't respond to her initial text she text me again saying that she was really looking forward to seeing me and that she thinks we should reschedule.

I replied with a simple "we can do that" and left it at that. Now my question is do you guys think I should fall back and let her contact me to set up this rescheduling? Or should I hit her up next week and tell her to come over? I know her saying we should reschedule is a good thing,but I was thinking like DAMN I guess she was just gonna wait and NOT tell me that she couldn't come, and that is what makes me ask this question. Plus the fact that I just get tired of females and their BS lol I cleaned up realllll good, bought drinks and all just for the ***** to wanna reschedule.

I just kind of wanna fall back and see if she'll come to me, but then I dont want to miss out because I'm playing games... Oh yeah by the way I've been doing everything right. No constant texting etc. Just straight up macking on her, but then I hit this bump in the road smh
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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stevo

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Good job.

Your mind is in the right place.

Dont get hungry or desperate just maintain where your head is at.

Do not contact her. Let her come to you.

Dont sound too excited when she text you.

She'll try to draw out your emotions but hold your ground.

She could bring her punani to you, she might not. Dont lose your dignity for either.

I've been in your shoes before, you prepare and sheet and beech doesnt show.

Isnt it just a shame when you take a girl serious but she wants to play mind games?
 

El Payaso

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If she didn't offer a counter, she's not interested.

She'll just keep stringing you along.
 

Thatdude8708

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Yeah, I will fall back. I've been on hiatus from women for a long ass time as this was the first time I have even kept in contact/asked a woman out since last year. I've been focusing on making money and working out everyday then I met her and we get along good and interested in same things and she didn't seem to be playing games and unlike other girls she can actually hold an interesting conversation so I took a chance and even she flaked on me. **** is frustrating, B
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Thatdude8708 said:
Yeah, I will fall back. I've been on hiatus from women for a long ass time as this was the first time I have even kept in contact/asked a woman out since last year. I've been focusing on making money and working out everyday then I met her and we get along good and interested in same things and she didn't seem to be playing games and unlike other girls she can actually hold an interesting conversation so I took a chance and even she flaked on me. **** is frustrating, B
It's a lot of folks not playing games or planning to flake on you but so self-involved that they chase every dangled carrot. Sometimes they chased what was a bigger carrot and forgot about you.
 

Dgwizdal

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Relax, have a drink. Sh!t will happen on its own whether with her or not. Your heads in the right place - let her come to you.
 

Thatdude8708

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I wish there were a way to give you guys props on your posts, Or is there?
 

Starfvcks 64

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Thatdude8708 said:
I wish there were a way to give you guys props on your posts, Or is there?
Click the scale underneath their name, in between the purple circle and warning sign. The green squares under everyone name is basically their rating. The more positive ratings you get, the bigger your green bar gets. Negative ratings make it smaller.

I don't know why some squares are light green compared to dark green though.
 
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