Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Thatdude8708

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So uhh, I had a female coming over yesterday and of course when I text her telling her what time to come over she flaked on me claiming that she had to do something for her mom, and that she should have told me earlier etc. Anyways after I didn't respond to her initial text she text me again saying that she was really looking forward to seeing me and that she thinks we should reschedule.

I replied with a simple "we can do that" and left it at that. Now my question is do you guys think I should fall back and let her contact me to set up this rescheduling? Or should I hit her up next week and tell her to come over? I know her saying we should reschedule is a good thing,but I was thinking like DAMN I guess she was just gonna wait and NOT tell me that she couldn't come, and that is what makes me ask this question. Plus the fact that I just get tired of females and their BS lol I cleaned up realllll good, bought drinks and all just for the ***** to wanna reschedule.

I just kind of wanna fall back and see if she'll come to me, but then I dont want to miss out because I'm playing games... Oh yeah by the way I've been doing everything right. No constant texting etc. Just straight up macking on her, but then I hit this bump in the road smh
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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stevo

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Good job.

Your mind is in the right place.

Dont get hungry or desperate just maintain where your head is at.

Do not contact her. Let her come to you.

Dont sound too excited when she text you.

She'll try to draw out your emotions but hold your ground.

She could bring her punani to you, she might not. Dont lose your dignity for either.

I've been in your shoes before, you prepare and sheet and beech doesnt show.

Isnt it just a shame when you take a girl serious but she wants to play mind games?
 

El Payaso

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If she didn't offer a counter, she's not interested.

She'll just keep stringing you along.
 

Thatdude8708

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Yeah, I will fall back. I've been on hiatus from women for a long ass time as this was the first time I have even kept in contact/asked a woman out since last year. I've been focusing on making money and working out everyday then I met her and we get along good and interested in same things and she didn't seem to be playing games and unlike other girls she can actually hold an interesting conversation so I took a chance and even she flaked on me. **** is frustrating, B
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Thatdude8708 said:
Yeah, I will fall back. I've been on hiatus from women for a long ass time as this was the first time I have even kept in contact/asked a woman out since last year. I've been focusing on making money and working out everyday then I met her and we get along good and interested in same things and she didn't seem to be playing games and unlike other girls she can actually hold an interesting conversation so I took a chance and even she flaked on me. **** is frustrating, B
It's a lot of folks not playing games or planning to flake on you but so self-involved that they chase every dangled carrot. Sometimes they chased what was a bigger carrot and forgot about you.
 

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Relax, have a drink. Sh!t will happen on its own whether with her or not. Your heads in the right place - let her come to you.
 

Thatdude8708

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I wish there were a way to give you guys props on your posts, Or is there?
 

Starfvcks 64

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Thatdude8708 said:
I wish there were a way to give you guys props on your posts, Or is there?
Click the scale underneath their name, in between the purple circle and warning sign. The green squares under everyone name is basically their rating. The more positive ratings you get, the bigger your green bar gets. Negative ratings make it smaller.

I don't know why some squares are light green compared to dark green though.
 
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