"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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aww man haha

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dont apologize. Give her space. Tell her she can start talking to you again when she gets in a better mood.
 

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Like already said, give her space, but for the love of God, PLEASE don't try to reason with her and get in a huge argument. My friends are always venting to me about how they get in so much arguments with their girlfriends and I tell them the same thing over and over again...you can't reason with women, they think with their emotions first so just give her space. And they don't LISTEN, and they persist to get into arguments! Even if you are right, they're just going to make up bull**** because it doesn't matter what logic says; when there's tension between a guy and her girl, the girl is so mad that she'll LIE just to think she's right. Arguments are pointless, they get you nowhere, and they give you gray hairs.
 
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