Brandonc662
Don Juan
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First off I want to tell everyone that I have been married to what most people on this board refer to as AW's, I think this term is a little off or maybe just a broad generalization, maybe psychopath is more fitting. I have left my wife(Did i mention she's bi-polar also 
bi-polar and an AW how could that go bad?) for the 3rd and final time in 3 years and we have been married 5. So believe me I know alot on this subject and will write a little at a time.
I've herd people on here asking why afc's a pursuing or even getting involved initially with these women (I am using the term woman loosely). Well the AFC believes everything that this woman is telling him. Why? Simply because he wants/needs to. He is insecure or is so totally oblivious to himself being used. They are for a lack of a better term week (I know because i was this person in the beginning) Your confident alpha male types would pass on them or screw them once and move on.
But why is the AFC interested? HE FEELS THE NEED TO SAVE HER. Captain Save a Ho Syndrome. You save them because you feel sorry for them, they play the victim card. The victim card is a consistent tool of the AW more on that later. You save her because you are week and think she cares about you (AW's only care about themselves FYI). Saving a AW is throwing more gas on the fire. Your going to get burned
I saved my wife by letting her move in my parents house (I was 19 when this cluster*uck began). She was evicted and had no place to go, i was that proverbial KNIGHT In SHINING ARMOR. Boy, it was fun for a week or so but after that it has been downhill for 6 years. If you say "How can it get worse than moving a aw in and live at your parents house?" Then you haven't had a LTR with an AW.
They are manipulative with everyone they meet especially men. The weaker they are the more manipulated you will be. I agree with KontrollerX when he says it begins with separation or disconnection with their mother in very early child hood. They manipulate men to get the affection they did not get in those years from their mother, not because their daddy had boundary issues or was not there.
The AW does talk a lot of SHlT and dont follow through. I noticed over the years my estranged wife would talk about us having sex all day long every few days but when it came time to get to business she wouldn't follow through 85% of the time. She'd talk about being victimized without any proof one way or the other. They talk because thats what they do best, They talk because there is nothing there, their just an empty shell of a human being, its bravado. They want you to be interested in them to make them feel special or to validate themselves, because either they dont know how big of a monstrous piece of SHlT they are or they are that egomenical and think they are the greatest piece of SHlT on the planet. They talk because they hope it will distract you from who they really are. Remember actions really are louder than words.
Now we get to what is the greatest arsenal in the AW's bag. The victim card. One thing about AW's you may not know is they are always the victim. They never have done anything wrong. Its always someone Else's fault. They will lie, cheat, and steal just so you believe that they are the victim. In LTRs they will get others believing you are the bad guy. Unbelievably no matter what decisions they make for themselves if it goes bad than someone else influenced them and made them a victim.
Inevitably in LTRs with AW's she will be the victim. You will be a cold ******* just give it time. How many times can you hear this drama queen cry until it becomes trivial. You will be cold to her emotions (which will be very erratic). Its like watching a suspenseful movie over and over again, after a few continued viewings those jump scares will not get you anymore because it has become very familiar. She will put you through so much physiological torture and warfare that you will become the biggest ******* in the world to her. You will treat her like SHlT because thats how she treats you. She doesn't care she turned an AFC/nice guy into this though, all she can see is_______ anyone? anyone? Right! Her being victimized again.
Anyways I will write more on this subject shortly. Also if anyone is thinking Why listen to someone who has married a AW well heres a little history: By the time we were separated the first 2 times I was no longer a AFC. In the separations, I was sleeping with girls constantly, maybe being with an AW for a couple of years turned my game around. The only reason I got back in a relationship with her was for our sons sake. (OMG he impregnated an AW! yes I did and its the only thing positive to come out of that relationship). I see that person I was at 19 and it makes me sick, young, dumb, and full of cumm i guess. I don't want to see anyone else have to suffer through the same thing I have. also i may look new but 6 years ago i was on here as BadBoyKilla. I'm just getting back in the game and if I can keep someone from making the mistakes I made its all worth it.
bi-polar and an AW how could that go bad?) for the 3rd and final time in 3 years and we have been married 5. So believe me I know alot on this subject and will write a little at a time.I've herd people on here asking why afc's a pursuing or even getting involved initially with these women (I am using the term woman loosely). Well the AFC believes everything that this woman is telling him. Why? Simply because he wants/needs to. He is insecure or is so totally oblivious to himself being used. They are for a lack of a better term week (I know because i was this person in the beginning) Your confident alpha male types would pass on them or screw them once and move on.
But why is the AFC interested? HE FEELS THE NEED TO SAVE HER. Captain Save a Ho Syndrome. You save them because you feel sorry for them, they play the victim card. The victim card is a consistent tool of the AW more on that later. You save her because you are week and think she cares about you (AW's only care about themselves FYI). Saving a AW is throwing more gas on the fire. Your going to get burned
I saved my wife by letting her move in my parents house (I was 19 when this cluster*uck began). She was evicted and had no place to go, i was that proverbial KNIGHT In SHINING ARMOR. Boy, it was fun for a week or so but after that it has been downhill for 6 years. If you say "How can it get worse than moving a aw in and live at your parents house?" Then you haven't had a LTR with an AW.
They are manipulative with everyone they meet especially men. The weaker they are the more manipulated you will be. I agree with KontrollerX when he says it begins with separation or disconnection with their mother in very early child hood. They manipulate men to get the affection they did not get in those years from their mother, not because their daddy had boundary issues or was not there.
The AW does talk a lot of SHlT and dont follow through. I noticed over the years my estranged wife would talk about us having sex all day long every few days but when it came time to get to business she wouldn't follow through 85% of the time. She'd talk about being victimized without any proof one way or the other. They talk because thats what they do best, They talk because there is nothing there, their just an empty shell of a human being, its bravado. They want you to be interested in them to make them feel special or to validate themselves, because either they dont know how big of a monstrous piece of SHlT they are or they are that egomenical and think they are the greatest piece of SHlT on the planet. They talk because they hope it will distract you from who they really are. Remember actions really are louder than words.
Now we get to what is the greatest arsenal in the AW's bag. The victim card. One thing about AW's you may not know is they are always the victim. They never have done anything wrong. Its always someone Else's fault. They will lie, cheat, and steal just so you believe that they are the victim. In LTRs they will get others believing you are the bad guy. Unbelievably no matter what decisions they make for themselves if it goes bad than someone else influenced them and made them a victim.
Inevitably in LTRs with AW's she will be the victim. You will be a cold ******* just give it time. How many times can you hear this drama queen cry until it becomes trivial. You will be cold to her emotions (which will be very erratic). Its like watching a suspenseful movie over and over again, after a few continued viewings those jump scares will not get you anymore because it has become very familiar. She will put you through so much physiological torture and warfare that you will become the biggest ******* in the world to her. You will treat her like SHlT because thats how she treats you. She doesn't care she turned an AFC/nice guy into this though, all she can see is_______ anyone? anyone? Right! Her being victimized again.
Anyways I will write more on this subject shortly. Also if anyone is thinking Why listen to someone who has married a AW well heres a little history: By the time we were separated the first 2 times I was no longer a AFC. In the separations, I was sleeping with girls constantly, maybe being with an AW for a couple of years turned my game around. The only reason I got back in a relationship with her was for our sons sake. (OMG he impregnated an AW! yes I did and its the only thing positive to come out of that relationship). I see that person I was at 19 and it makes me sick, young, dumb, and full of cumm i guess. I don't want to see anyone else have to suffer through the same thing I have. also i may look new but 6 years ago i was on here as BadBoyKilla. I'm just getting back in the game and if I can keep someone from making the mistakes I made its all worth it.
