"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Awkward Situation....Need some Input..

DJx420

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Okay guys well pretty much the story goes like this:

My roomate had 2 of his friends from home (girls stay with us for a weekend). They ended up bringing along 4 other friends (girls) to stay with us too...How great is that?! haha

So I immediately see a cute girl that I'm interested in and I decide I'm going for her. We show them around town the first day and I make myself the leader of the group. She pretty much tried talking to me as much as possible, which is never a bad thing.

That night we all go to dinner, she sits next to me. I make sure our legs are touching the whole entire dinner. Any touching, in my opinion, is good touching. It gets you more comfortable with the person even subconsciously.

So later in the evening we all pregame, get drunk, go out and I eventually make my way with her to the dancefloor. After grinding with her for about 20 minutes it was a full on make-out session on the floor. We go home, do our thing and then there is day 2.

Day 2 starts out pretty much the same, show them more of the town and again I'm the leader. I got her phone number (just incase she ran into a problem ;)) and she ended up texting me pretty much every time she wasn't with me, which I wasn't complaining about again. Anyways to sum it up, I got with her again that night.

She leaves on Sunday. That was around 4 weeks ago. We have been texting each other EVERY day since then. Now I'm going to visit my friends in 2 weeks (where she is) and I'm going to be able to see her for one night.

My question to you guys is do I now start to cut down on the messaging? I feel as if we've been internet dating for the past month because I know so much about this girl already and have only had face time with her for around 48 hours. What are your guys inputs on this?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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pLaYtHiNg

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I'm not quite sure I understand what the issue is. You want to talk less so that when you're together you'll have something to talk about? Or are you just trying to eliminate her completely?

Either way, just telling her you're busy and can't text or whatnot should give her a hint. If not, then just ignore her, but seeing as how you've already 'done your thing' she might get weird and insecure... a side you surely don't want to see.
 

DJx420

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Its not that I don't want to continue talking to her via text, because I actually like talking to her. Shes awesome. I just feel that its weird to build such a rapport via texting rather than when I see her.
 
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