Awkward situation I need to take advantage of.

[Stryker]

Hey guys.

Ok, so the other night me and a good friend went for a swim at the local leisure centre, which is where he works. I met one of his colleagues there who was easily an 8, so I promptly started a conversation with her and obtained her number.

As it turns out, this girl is on a 'break' with her boyfriend of a few months and my friend has now warned me off, at least for a while until she sorts out this situation with her boyfriend. Personally, I believe that considering she gave me her number, there should be no reason why I shouldn't contact her. Clearly things can't be good with her boyfriend if they're on a break, so why shouldn't I have my turn? Having said that, I also don't want to go against my friends wishes. Bros before hoes, and all that...

So, what would you do..?

 

[Konada]

I'd say bros. Risking a solid friendship for a chick I just met? No thanks.

 

[DonJuan_DeRosco]

Sounds like your 'friend' is tryna **** block you.

'Bros before hoes' is one of the worst sayings that has lingered around. Most of your friends would fvck you over for some girl first chance they get. You will find that only true alpha friends are the ones that will respect you enough not to fvck you over. I hope your good buddy is one of them.

YOU before anyone would be a better motto.


She gave you the number, she's on a 'break' from her bf of a 'few months'.
TRANSLATION = She's scoping the landscape for some new guy, you have a chance to build on this. Its up to you to decide how to use it.

 

[pdx1138]

unless your friend has already had her and objects to you moving in, I say go for it.

 

[macagent]

I agree, if he's your bro, he'd want you to get some. Hit that sh!t

 

[The_411]

Confused here. Why is your friend concerneed about you trying to hit it? Does he know this girl? Is he friends with the guy on a break? Does he know some sordid history about her? I'm only curious as to why your friends is saying do go there because he may actually have a good warning for you to avoid a littany of problems.

 

[Perfect]

"All a man's got in this world is his balls and his word."

 

[Stryker]

Confused here. Why is your friend concerneed about you trying to hit it? Does he know this girl? Is he friends with the guy on a break? Does he know some sordid history about her? I'm only curious as to why your friends is saying do go there because he may actually have a good warning for you to avoid a littany of problems.

You're right, I should have gone into a bit more detail. He knows both the girl and her on/off boyfriend, they all work at the same place. So I suppose he knows a lot more about the situation than I do. I don't think he has his own intentions with this girl.... I can't be 100% certain, but I'm quite sure. I suspect he's simply concerned about her feelings and whether me talking to her with complicate things further. I don't think it will, but whatever.

 

[Vice]

You're not friends with her boyfriend. Your good friend WORKS with him, but no mention of whether or not her boyfriend and your friend are friends. She gave you her number. Are you seriously asking for help here?

She is a big girl. She is capable of making her own choices, and it's either going to be you or him. Better make it you.

You're missing an opportunity. She's fair f*cking game, son. Sieze upon her moment of weakness.

Besides, they work together. DJ 101 says that dating within the workplace is a bad idea.

 

[Stryker]

Haha, fair play man, perhaps I was over thinking things. I think my friend simply telling me not to contact her yet has over complicated what should be an incredibly easy situation.

 

[Vice]

Haha, fair play man, perhaps I was over thinking things. I think my friend simply telling me not to contact her yet has over complicated what should be an incredibly easy situation.

If your friend does not make women's panties moist on a constant basis, don't listen to what he has to say.

 

[n00bPimp]

If your friend does not make women's panties moist on a constant basis, don't listen to what he has to say.

Agreed. I dont see how your friendship is at risk by dating her. so you should be getting in contact with her right now, regardless if she's back with bf or not. Call me crazy, but I've noticed that girls with bf's get horny as much as single girls. Weird huh? And here's the kicker, sometimes they f*uck other guys too!