"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Has this happened to anyone else? And what did you do??

Soo I went to the next town over to see a band I like and this girl I used to date goes to college in that town. It just so happens she went to the same concert I went to that night.

It ended really badly with this chick too, she and I were seeing each other and she got a boyfriend but would still ask me to hang. She invited me to a concert and I bought tickets and everthing then totally blew me off the day of not answering phone calls or nothing. And told me "I should know what I did," even got her boyfriend to instant message me on aim to ***** me out for talking to her?

Soo back to the topic, soo I noticed her first and her boyfriend wasn't with her she was with a bunch of girls. Soo later on she saw me and I was just chillin she decided to muster up the courage to talk to me. And I saw her coming my way I kinda paniced and turned the other way. Soo she comes over and says "hi" i return with a "hi." And I really don't know what to say I was soo angry for what this ***** did and now I dunno how to express it. She says what are you doing here I haven't seen you in soo long! I reply with "I wonder why?"

I got up and walked away! HAHAH :rockon: God works in mysterious ways!

Revenage is soo sweet hahahha!

P.S. She's been messaging me on aim trying to get me to talk to her..why would she even want to talk to me?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Stop analyzing sh*t. She f*cked you over on the concert tickets, she obviously doesn't want to f*ck you, and she wants to talk to you? She wants validation bro. She wants you to chase her. Forget the b*tch and move on.

If I were you, I would have cursed her out if she came up to me and then kicked her boyfriends ass for mouthing off. Be alpha. Don't take that sh*t. End of story.
 
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Haha, I would have done the same thing you did there. She has no excuse to pull sh*t like that, then walk up and pretend everything's cool.
 
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yeah the beeyotch didn't deserve a second glance!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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