"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Awkward feeling bringing girls home?

TheGameMaster

Don Juan
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i never bring them home because it feels arkward to think about it.
we all have stupid pet names for one another at home and it makes me think itll make people think me and my family are totally wierd.

anyone else feel arkward taking girls to your house?

thankfully im moving to uni soon so it wont be as much of an issue
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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COD

Master Don Juan
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its a huge step but a nessary step.........suck it up and just do it........chics love this kinda stuff
 
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