"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Awkward Feeling after asking for her number

DJnoob

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I asked this asian/american chick for her phone number in a playful way cuz she's still 17 (turning 18 soon) at work who is in a relationship with some dude.

Anyway,This is how it went one day...

We were in the back room alone for a minute so i thought this was the perfect oppurtunity to ask her number

I walked up to her and said

Me: hey, so do have a bf? (i already knew this)
HB: yeah
Me: you're not fvcking around?
HB: yeah, seriously i do
Me: Ok, i'll call you when you turn 18 ok? aright? (looked over my left and right shoulders to see if anyone was around. I was also trying to give her the impression that i wanted no one to see us)
HB: oooohh djnoob.. ooohh djnoob haha haha
Me: Ok, ill comeback and get your number later on
HB: haha okayyyy
-then i left and didnt ask for her number that day-

HERE IS THE THING, I sorta had this feeling she was avoiding me until 2 days ago when she said Hi to me again. Her opener was "Having fun?"

Then yesterday she came to work in her regular clothes and she looked good ( I work in the dairy section of the grocery store located all the way in the back of the grocery store. )

We talk for 2 minutes. somehow the converstation went this direction:

HB: yeah, theres this older guy he's 19 who wants to hook up with me. That makes him a child molester cause im only 17.
ME: So, does that make me a child molester?
HB: No, cause ill be 18
A little later she left, then i came to realize that DAMMNN, she didnt buy milk or OJ or any dairy product.. she just came there to see mEE! =)

IM SURE SHE LIKES ME 99.9% even though she has a bf. I'll get her number next time i see her.

But I just wanted to share notes with you guys about what chicks do after asking for their number in the workplace? Did they avoid you for days/week or did you feel any awkward feelings toward this person? ???????????????????

Thanks
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Any girl will cheat at the right time, place, just go for it. Don't talk about the boyfriend with her, and if you do try to discredit him.

Just keep in mind that she likes you it gives an advantage. Go take her where you have action and can touch her with no problems, like playing snooker.
What matters is the here and now for the girl, women use their judgments based on their feelings. If you make her feel attracted to you she will cheat and leave her old boyfriend because you're better.
 

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But I just wanted to share notes with you guys about what chicks do after asking for their number in the workplace? Did they avoid you for days/week or did you feel any awkward feelings toward this person? ???????????????????

Answer that. Thanks
 

womenarebiatches

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I have tried sarging on a lot of collegues through the years. Most of them you will never see again and if you do it's just a smile or hi. Some will ignore you and some just small talk.

Off course it's awkward at the beginning but hey life is awkward, just try to have some fun ;)
 

GloriouslyInsane

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womenarebiatches said:
Any girl will cheat at the right time, place, just go for it. Don't talk about the boyfriend with her, and if you do try to discredit him.

Just keep in mind that she likes you it gives an advantage. Go take her where you have action and can touch her with no problems, like playing snooker.
What matters is the here and now for the girl, women use their judgments based on their feelings. If you make her feel attracted to you she will cheat and leave her old boyfriend because you're better.
This man talks the truth about snooker/pool.It is the single action date with the highest intensity/natural kino ratio.Just make sure you don't suck at it before you start "tutoring" her.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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sounds awesome dude.

one thing i noticed is that you didnt really take advantage of the situation when she came to visit you. she was obviously talking about you with all that child molester stuff. totally flirting dude! and then u kinda ended it with what you said. you should have kept up the playful mood and went along with it.

HB: yeah, theres this older guy he's 19 who wants to hook up with me. That makes him a child molester cause im only 17.
You: really? so what are you gonna do about him?
HB: i dunno, maybe i'll let him come around...
You: *move closer to her* and when he gets close?
HB: i'd let him kiss me...
You can figure out the rest.

Maybe afterwards, you could've added something like "uh oh, now am I a child molester? keep it a secret, k?". Regardless, things are still working for you, so dont let up! make it happen baby.
 
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