"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Awkward eye contact?

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Anyways it's spring break so I'm on vacation and went on a trip to FL. So me an my fam go out to eat at this fancy Italian place. After a couple minutes these two cute girls sit at a table right in front of me. my parents backs are to the table where the girls are just to clarify. So eventually me and that girl start making eye contact on and off. I caught her looking at me and she caught me looking at her. I was trying so hard not to look but ya know things happen. What I'm trying to say is, that did not feel masculine at all! I felt like a ***** for some reason and I do not like feeling like a *****. I'm a very confident guy and have no problem walking up and talking to girls but I couldn't walk up to them because their parents were at the table right behind them. Is there any way I could have been ya know, been Don Juan about this situation?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Own it. When you make eye contact and she reciprocates, give a smile or a nod to let her know that you like what you see.

When you try to pretend you aren't looking you enter feminine, passive territory. It can be tough sometimes but I try to win staring contests with women I find attractive. They wouldn't be making strong eye contact if they weren't attracted to you in some way.
 
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Isn't it interesting how acknowledging that the other person knows they have your full attention can bring so much tension?
 
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