"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Awkward approach, haha. Advice needed!

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Hey guys, well the high school year started and I got my eye on a girl who is about a year younger than me, so no classes with her.. but I see her at random times, and I know some of her friends. (Not too close with her friends, most of them are brats lol.)

Anywho - I've seen her looking at me before.. never really had a chance to approach her. I was walking around the school with this other girl (Just a friend) and I saw her with a guy and so I am talking with the girl I was with and we thought nobody would be at this place.

Conversation went something a long the lines of this:
Me: Oh wow, there are actually people here haha, why don't we go back upstairs. (to my friend)
Girl I like: No, it's okay.. you guys can stay if you want.
Me: Nah, it's all good. Hey wait, you're friends with blah blah.. the one who always gets sent out of class!
Girl: *laughs* haha yess thats me!
Me: Yeah, I've seen you around *little smile*
My friend: We should get going

I said by goodbyes with that girl I like, and went home.

How should I take my next approach when I see her? I'd say she is about an 8.5, likes to joke around, and I am a grade older than her.
But that guy she was with might be her boyfriend.. so just want to get some views on this. (And that guy she was with, I've seen him around quite a bit of times with 9's.. he seems like he's got some game for sure, lol.)

Thanks for your time. :up:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Axcell said:
But that guy she was with might be her boyfriend.. so just want to get some views on this. And that guy she was with, I've seen him around quite a bit of times with 9's.. he seems like he's got some game for sure, lol.
You'll never get her with that kind of attitute!
Walk up confidently, smile, and say hey.

Then talk.
I'm sure u know how to talk!

Another thing - don't judge guys, period.
Jeez it sounds like you're more in love with the guy than the girl the way you describe him.
haha anyways, get into a conversation with the girl and try to number close like "you're cool we're gonna chill this weekend, what number do I call?"
Should be very easy for ya.

8.5 huh? must be pretty hot..
 

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Alright, I will try that out tomorrow. Didn't get a chance of seeing her today.
Haha, sorry about the way I described him. I honestly have a great attitude, it's just I wanted to make sure I do the approach properly and what I should do if I get negative signs.
And she is most definetly a keeper lol.

Any more views is greatly appreciated!
 

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Axcell said:
it's just I wanted to make sure I do the approach properly and what I should do if I get negative signs.
Blah blah AFC...
Make it natural, because if you think you can get a girl you should be able to do it with YOUR personality, mind and confidence alone!

lol tell us what happens man
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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one thing if her friends are brats then they might be major cocblocks so you might want to watch out for them
 

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I totally almost forgot about this topic I made a month or two ago, haha.
I had my eye on another girl, I almost totally forgot about her. Definetly need to approach this HB8 soon!
 

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krazyboy99 said:
GWA, how many chicks have you successfully picked up out of curiosity

Hey now, it doesn't matter what his game is in real life, its his advice that helps other people with their game. So it doesn't matter if he gets no girls or all of the girls, he at least knows what hes talking about online and helps share what he's learned with everyone else.
 

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Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
Blah blah AFC...
now now alamar dont be saying that because i remeber when u were posting about ur onitis and afc days 8 months back or something like that .... i remeber =D
 

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dj ben2 said:
now now alamar dont be saying that because i remeber when u were posting about ur onitis and afc days 8 months back or something like that .... i remeber =D
I wish you guys had said that to me back then :) lol
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Axcell

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Haha, well, we all started somewhere I suppose.
I still remember back when I was an AFC, that is before I started visiting many forums such as this one.
Unfortunately, the AFC part of us comes back to us, we just need to be able to recognize that so we are able to overcome it. ;)

Ah well, I like how this conversation is taking place in a topic I created a month ago. :p
 

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Brighty said:
Hey now, it doesn't matter what his game is in real life, its his advice that helps other people with their game. So it doesn't matter if he gets no girls or all of the girls, he at least knows what hes talking about online and helps share what he's learned with everyone else.
actually I think it matters a great deal at how capable you are in real life... I'm tired of people giving advice that have never done it themselves.
 
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