Awesome night: the revelation

[badboyjmm]

Hey guys, I just want it to share my awesome night I just have. I just been back from the club and it was so nice !!! I arrived at the 1st club at 11h30pm, it was dead, a few girls but I didn't like that feeling of the empty club. So I head out to a second club, my friend (3 of them are heading there too). I was feeling the fear of rejection (those ladies were hot and my friend were there so I didn't want to screw up) I didn't talk to any of them. But I started drinking a little bit.

Funny thing was that I go to another club (3rd of the night) and I'm going with only one friend. Then I just started to hit on girls (especially there was a bunch of wallflower there)

The first one just rejects me even if she was the one giving me IOI's (wtf?) I was so relaxed that I shook it off and I went downstairs. There's was a beautiful 8 blonde with her friend. She kept on smiling, so I went to talk to her and said

badboyjmm: You've got the most cutiest smile I've ever seen !
girl: blushes .... Thanks
badboyjmm: You wanna dance ?

And there I was, dancing with the chick before the friends took her from me, (****blockers to the max HAHA)

So the summary (don't wanna make the post too long)

I've dance with 2 girls, Talk to 5 of them (included the female bouncer), got rejected by 1.

I just got me to realize that all that time I was living in my head (basically cause of FEAR), I just gotta be social with girls and I'll get what I want from them (sex, relationship)

Thanks a lot for all the posters that made me understand that I'm the prize and that I just got to have fun while going out !!!

 

[Aazman]

good work- keep it up and keep us posted. start a journal.

 

[Cil]

awesome man the change from massive AA to hitting the dance floor is great. Don't forget to try and remove alcohol from the equation though as it is a completely game when you're stone cold sober. Definetly a step in the right direction though.

 

[badboyjmm]

The revelation follow-up

I was out on a Tuesday night. I got at the bar super late (1:00am) I feel really good I smile at everybody and then it hits me. FEAR... Girls are so hot and cute, laughing and dancing sexy... I thought it would be another night where I would just dance and hang out with my buddies. But I decided to feel the fear and proceed to talk to girls.

Results: I had an awesome time, I've talk to 4-5 girls, got ignored by two girls, talk to a couple guys (asking him why he's not sharing since he was dancing with two girls) Dancing of course, and enjoying myself

Things to correct: Well there's was some cute girls just standing on the wall that were my type but I didn't go for it. Also another girl that I found cute that was looking at me but I think I didn't go for it because she was on a 3-set... and my friends are not very good at the wingmen position (too scared of rejection)

Funny things that I was the one having fun and they were just complaining that the night was boring .... Although they were there since 11:30am

I still wanna improve to destroy my fear of rejection and start to approach girls in malls !