I took this girl to a rock concert for a first date. She is a bartender I met at one of the bars my band plays at.
We had excellent conversation on the drive, and found we have much in common. She gave TONS of kino the whole night from the moment she got in my car. I made NO obvious mistakes and had the ****y/funny bit going perfectly. She mentioned many times how funny I was and how much fun she was having. I've never seen a girl laugh or smile so much on a date.
Then the nuclear bomb:
I pull into her place at the end of the night. Before I can even turn my head to go for the kiss, she leans in and hugs me with our heads side-to-side. She then asks me when I'm playing at her bar next, and I think for a minute and tell her on the 26th. Then she says "OK, I'll see you on the 26th then."
Ouch. WTF.
My sister, who was also at the concert, said this was a clear blow-off. However, she was shocked by this because she noticed my date was definitely having fun.
Other red flag: during the date she mentioned she has another date...the very next day!
But she's not a professional dater: she tried HARD to pay for everything. I let her buy one round of beer, but stood firm on her ticket and on parking.
Out-of-left-field LJBF? Usually I can see this coming, but her body language was very positive all night. Then this B.S.
What happened?
We had excellent conversation on the drive, and found we have much in common. She gave TONS of kino the whole night from the moment she got in my car. I made NO obvious mistakes and had the ****y/funny bit going perfectly. She mentioned many times how funny I was and how much fun she was having. I've never seen a girl laugh or smile so much on a date.
Then the nuclear bomb:
I pull into her place at the end of the night. Before I can even turn my head to go for the kiss, she leans in and hugs me with our heads side-to-side. She then asks me when I'm playing at her bar next, and I think for a minute and tell her on the 26th. Then she says "OK, I'll see you on the 26th then."
Ouch. WTF.
My sister, who was also at the concert, said this was a clear blow-off. However, she was shocked by this because she noticed my date was definitely having fun.
Other red flag: during the date she mentioned she has another date...the very next day!
But she's not a professional dater: she tried HARD to pay for everything. I let her buy one round of beer, but stood firm on her ticket and on parking.
Out-of-left-field LJBF? Usually I can see this coming, but her body language was very positive all night. Then this B.S.
What happened?