You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
This is an easier, simpler way of thinking of the situation, come to think about it. At least there are no missunderstandings.Originally posted by NismoAwan
Ive found that the best way to avoid the whole "lets just be friends" bs is to simply tell the woman upfront that you will not be just friends under any conditions whatsoever. If she gives you trouble about it, 99% of the time shes not interested in you at all. And if a woman that gives you trouble about something simple like that, do you really think shes worth it?
Thanks-I think I need to follow this from now on.Originally posted by NismoAwan
Ive found that the best way to avoid the whole "lets just be friends" bs is to simply tell the woman upfront that you will not be just friends under any conditions whatsoever. If she gives you trouble about it, 99% of the time shes not interested in you at all. And if a woman that gives you trouble about something simple like that, do you really think shes worth it?
minus. you screwed up. big timeOriginally posted by burninate666
Thanks-I think I need to follow this from now on.
EDIT: I might've just pulled a stupid here. I avoided her all school week, and I just, uh...apologized to her. I said--
"Sorry about Monday--that was dumb of me to ask" (slow tone)
"No, no, it wasn't dumb or anything"
"Yeah, I was trying to avoid you all week" (same, sheepish tone)
"I could tell" (smiling)
"cya"
"cya"
Plus? Minus?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.