"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Avoiding Foreplay

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OK, I've been getting alot of ONS's lately and it's been great....but the thing with me it's I"m a very affectionate ****er, so when I get a girl naked I always feel like it's my job to go down on her. I actually like doing that and would love to do it often once I get a serious gf but the thing is I'm really scared of all the disease floating around. I heard an estimate in my microbiology class that 64% of people in my generation will contract an STD in their lifetime so naturally I don't want to keep doing this but I can't seem to wrap my mind around any other way of getting her hot for sex. I do alot of fingering when I first start but I don't know how to make the transition from that to sex.

Could somebody enlighten me on how I can avoid foreplay from now on. I'm not looking for a list of instructions from anybody, I just want someone to put me in the right mindset.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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NO@!

With one night stands I can see it, but you are depriving yourself of your desires and once you do that why have sex at all?

Get a few Oral Condoms, and carry them around with you like normal condoms. They will protect you just as well as a condom will and you won't have to give up anything that makes you happy.
 
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where do I get oral condoms?
 
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