"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Avoiding Foreplay

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OK, I've been getting alot of ONS's lately and it's been great....but the thing with me it's I"m a very affectionate ****er, so when I get a girl naked I always feel like it's my job to go down on her. I actually like doing that and would love to do it often once I get a serious gf but the thing is I'm really scared of all the disease floating around. I heard an estimate in my microbiology class that 64% of people in my generation will contract an STD in their lifetime so naturally I don't want to keep doing this but I can't seem to wrap my mind around any other way of getting her hot for sex. I do alot of fingering when I first start but I don't know how to make the transition from that to sex.

Could somebody enlighten me on how I can avoid foreplay from now on. I'm not looking for a list of instructions from anybody, I just want someone to put me in the right mindset.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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NO@!

With one night stands I can see it, but you are depriving yourself of your desires and once you do that why have sex at all?

Get a few Oral Condoms, and carry them around with you like normal condoms. They will protect you just as well as a condom will and you won't have to give up anything that makes you happy.
 
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where do I get oral condoms?
 
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