"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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avoiding awkward moments

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How does one avoid awkward silences with a girl? I know this isn't too common, but it does happen. And if it does happen, what to do about it? For example, i'm on a first date with a girl, just before the good-bye kiss, there is this initial fidgeting around. What do you do about it?

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Sometimes a lil bit of silence can be golden
 

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If you don't want silence, talk.
 

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Are you still keeping some eye contact, or are you both looking away? Either way, it shouldn't last over 2 seconds or so.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Some girls like to have the silence there it to test you on the situation. Just go with the flow and dont worry, if the rest of the date went great the little bt of akward silence wont make a difference.
 

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If you don't want silence, talk
Terrible advice ;P


Dont talk if you have nothing to say, you will come off as sounding like an idiot and during your nervous babblings you will appear to be a very unfunny jester to all those around who happen to have the bad luck to be in your presence.
 
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