"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I have this issue with my friends Girlfriend
If they are attractive, i will avoid all eye contact which always fails
Making me like a total loser peeking on her, and at times it become really obvious that i just leave the table.
I have no problem having a good conversation and good eye contact with an attractive lady but it becomes an issue if she is attached to someone i know.
Part of my fear is getting her attracted to me and letting people know my attraction to her.(probably this is the answer to my question)

if i am attracted to girls, i always shows it in a non-verbal way, but how to turn it off ?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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RJuan said:
I have this issue with my friends Girlfriend
If they are attractive, i will avoid all eye contact which always fails
Making me like a total loser peeking on her, and at times it become really obvious that i just leave the table.
I have no problem having a good conversation and good eye contact with an attractive lady but it becomes an issue if she is attached to someone i know.
Part of my fear is getting her attracted to me and letting people know my attraction to her.(probably this is the answer to my question)

if i am attracted to girls, i always shows it in a non-verbal way, but how to turn it off ?
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you are supposed to show attraction to women, the only people that are asexual are psychotic serial killers, people with severe autism and children

if you don`t feel sh*t around women, you could be gay as well

your problem is shame around your sexuality, thinking that you hurt women with it, but that`s just as big nonsense like "study, than go find a safe and secure job", while the richest people never finished university, never worked for anybody else, except themselves ... society is based on lies, lies keep man calm and obedient

women need to experience your desire towards them, that you are choosing them, otherwise you`ll be boring and avoided ... romance novels are full with melodrama, because women crave intense emotions

gay as it seems, the first episode of Twilight was directed by a woman, watch it to get a general sense of what women read while we aren`t approaching them
 
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