"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Avoiding attraction

RJuan

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I have this issue with my friends Girlfriend
If they are attractive, i will avoid all eye contact which always fails
Making me like a total loser peeking on her, and at times it become really obvious that i just leave the table.
I have no problem having a good conversation and good eye contact with an attractive lady but it becomes an issue if she is attached to someone i know.
Part of my fear is getting her attracted to me and letting people know my attraction to her.(probably this is the answer to my question)

if i am attracted to girls, i always shows it in a non-verbal way, but how to turn it off ?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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RJuan said:
I have this issue with my friends Girlfriend
If they are attractive, i will avoid all eye contact which always fails
Making me like a total loser peeking on her, and at times it become really obvious that i just leave the table.
I have no problem having a good conversation and good eye contact with an attractive lady but it becomes an issue if she is attached to someone i know.
Part of my fear is getting her attracted to me and letting people know my attraction to her.(probably this is the answer to my question)

if i am attracted to girls, i always shows it in a non-verbal way, but how to turn it off ?
you are supposed to show attraction to women, the only people that are asexual are psychotic serial killers, people with severe autism and children

if you don`t feel sh*t around women, you could be gay as well

your problem is shame around your sexuality, thinking that you hurt women with it, but that`s just as big nonsense like "study, than go find a safe and secure job", while the richest people never finished university, never worked for anybody else, except themselves ... society is based on lies, lies keep man calm and obedient

women need to experience your desire towards them, that you are choosing them, otherwise you`ll be boring and avoided ... romance novels are full with melodrama, because women crave intense emotions

gay as it seems, the first episode of Twilight was directed by a woman, watch it to get a general sense of what women read while we aren`t approaching them
 
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