Avoid The Noise Challenge

[logicallefty]

Sex and companionship. Many of us agree that that's all women are really good for in general. Let me start by saying that there are some great women in the world. I know one or two, I think. They are not all evil. But for the most part when you really stop and look at what women do to this world as a gender as a whole, you will likely see that they do more damage to the world than good.

Don't take my word for it, just stop and look objectively. Really look for yourself. Do it.

After the incident below that I posted about from last weekend, I am rolling into my second week of my "Avoid The Noise Challenge" in honor of my late father. He died in 2002 and after an incident at work that happened to him around 1999 give or take, he avoided women as much as possible. I am finally following his lead. I am making the absolute minimal contact with the female gender in my everyday life, and I have to admit, I feel great. This isn't about dating, I am actually seeing a woman now who is pretty good and somewhat red pill. My avoidance challenge isn't cutting off all contact with women 100%, its just about minimizing it. It is about work, going to stores, the gym, whereever life takes me where women are. I no longer look at women unless I have to talk to them, like a cashier or waitress. I no longer smile at them. If they smile at me, I do not respond. At work, I no longer shoot the breeze with any women. I have ditched social media other than what my work requires me to do. Again, key word MINIMIZE, not cut out..

My other fellow Sosuave brothers, you guys are welcome to follow me. Or give any any feedback on how crazy this is. It won't change my mind, I am going my own way, but I still would like to hear both positive and negative feedback.

Anyone who decides to do this, just try it for one week, and report back.

I was going to make a new thread about this but this thread here re Social Media is active, so let me share what just happened to me over the past few days.

I setup a Twitter account for the sole purpose if following the Presidential Elections this year. Last week there was a Twitter feed about one one of the two female candidates. I made the dumb mistake of having my Twitter in my real name. I posted some smack that neither said candidate or any of their gender will ever be President in my lifetime. This femi**** made a derogatory comment directed at me that had an F bomb in it. I next posted that she, the femi****, was a prime example of why the Chinese have legal limits on her gender. She took my real name and backgrounded me to where I work which I think she got from my Linked in. Then she called my work and complained that I was saying bad stuff online and harassing her!! All starting over posts on the Presidential election. My boss gave me a good talking to and ordered me to get off social media with my real name and identity. Which on FB I already do that, but I had used my own name on Twitter, foolishly.. I am telling you guys, this could have went way worse for me than it did. But it really drilled home for me and opened my eyes EVEN MORE just how social media can be, the thing women will do, and just how all out crazy things have become.. I also thought of my late father. Back in the 1990s he worked as a phone company lineman. Once I guess he got into a pretty bad work issue with one or more women who worked in the phone company office. I think it lead to him getting written up, whatever it was, I don't remember. He told me he was going to talk to and interact with as few women as humanly possible. My naive self at the time said "Dad that's a bit paranoid and extreme, isn't it?" That was in the 1990s.. Things are 50x worse now. I completely get it now. He was on to something that from now on, I am going to adopt into my life.. This goes way beyond dating... I'm talking everything, both offline and online.. This sh|t is getting too serious.. And the stakes are too high.

 

[Yewki]

I think you're just in a phase after your problem on Twitter and will get over it. Do what you gotta do though. If you don't want to look at, smile, or talk to women... kind of extreme, but go for it.

I will say, your Twitter situation and other experiences don't really seem to justify this reaction though. Your f*ck up was just posting controversial stuff with your real name. Yeah, women are probably more likely to report you over stuff like this, but a dude could have as well. There's also plenty of ways you can interact with women with little to no risk. You're not going to lose your job by smiling at a lady in the grocery store, for example.

 

[wifehunter]

Yeah, I'm on a bit of a break with the grocery store ladies. Haven't spoken to them in a week. May give the cafe ladies a break too. It's good to step back, every once in awhile, to exercise law 16:

http://48laws-of-power.blogspot.com/2011/05/law-16-use-absence-to-increase-respect.html

 

[logicallefty]

@KingofPuss I cold approach when the opportunity comes to me but I don't go out seeking women anymore.

@Yewki I'd like to think I'm not going to loose my job by smiling at a woman in a grocery store.. But in 2016 America any sort of extreme BS like that is possible. It would be my fvcking luck I'd be the only male in the store at a given time; all employees and other customers would be female. I would look at one of them wrong and all the females in the store would make up some story that I assaulted one of them. And coincidently the security cameras would all be "down" at that exact time. So it would be all of their word against mine. Even a couple of years ago I would have said "dang lefty that's some paranoid crazy azz sh|t, what are you smoking".. But today, I see it as a real risk.... It would be my fvcking luck.

 

[Yewki]

@Yewki I'd like to think I'm not going to loose my job by smiling at a woman in a grocery store.. But in 2016 America any sort of extreme BS like that is possible. It would be my fvcking luck I'd be the only male in the store at a given time; all employees and other customers would be female. I would look at one of them wrong and all the females in the store would make up some story that I assaulted one of them. And coincidently the security cameras would all be "down" at that exact time. So it would be all of their word against mine. Even a couple of years ago I would have said "dang lefty that's some paranoid crazy azz sh|t, what are you smoking".. But today, I see it as a real risk.... It would be my fvcking luck.

Well, some risks are worth taking. You might die crossing the street trying to get to where you're going, but you take the risk anyways. Just gotta ask yourself if it's worth it. I think you're still in shell shock and will bounce back in due time.

 

[Who Dares Win]

I can relate with what you say, right now Im doing something similar to what you do but not as strict and not coming from an event but simply from a no bull**** policy.

Im nice to everyone untill comes a reason to be otherwise, in that case no second tought.

I find myself not looking at women like you do especially in the gym or places that I attend while I have no problem to stop and stare at some woman's ass in the street, I do it openly and clear even if other women stares at me annoyed.

Anyway the same moment I smell tricks, deception or mind games I drop it, I smile and leave the set even if she is still talking to me, something like snake pliskin when he didnt want to speak with people and left.

I have to say that I feel much calmer and relaxed, can relate with what you say, same thing with social media.

To have a no bull**** policy is a great way I imroved my life, also when I walk and women cross my way taking for granted that I will stop, so many bitches dropped their groceries and bags, too bad I cant tell them "lol b1tch".

 

[Asmodeus]

I think that you should take a different approach... Heck, it almost sounds as if you are afraid of women avoiding them and all. They are nothing to fear. Heck I have stared women down and never gotten sent to jail for it. What can they imprison me for looking? The no bull**** policy posted by Who Dares Win makes more sense. I mean, just do not give into their ****. But do not let them have power over you, and do not let their actions change who you are and how you do things. Otherwise, you are letting women control your life and that makes you no different than the beta white knight, albeit in an rather opposite way.

 

[logicallefty]

I think that you should take a different approach... Heck, it almost sounds as if you are afraid of women avoiding them and all. They are nothing to fear. Heck I have stared women down and never gotten sent to jail for it. What can they imprison me for looking? The no bull**** policy posted by Who Dares Win makes more sense. I mean, just do not give into their ****. But do not let them have power over you, and do not let their actions change who you are and how you do things. Otherwise, you are letting women control your life and that makes you no different than the beta white knight, albeit in an rather opposite way.

If I gained anything from the women who I interact with in the course of my everyday life, then I would agree with you, women would be controlling me and I would be loosing (the benefit. ) But when I really stop and think about it, 93% of them do me no good. Let me give another example that just happened this morning:

My hot water heater took a cr@p last night. It will need to be replaced. I called the plumber I have dealt with for years about an hour ago. Told the office woman about the symptoms I am seeing, the type of water heater I have, model, size, etc. And I told her that I wanted to schedule a service call. She puts me on hold. Comes back. Asks me a few more questions. About 8 minutes on the call so far now, not a big deal at all. So what does she do? Transfers me to a man. I figured maybe she would pass my information to him and say "see you tomorrow at 10" or whatever... What am I smoking.. She didn't give him my name, any info, anything! I had to tell him everything I told her all over again... SO, why in the FVCK did I talk to her for 8 minutes? WHAT DID SHE DO???? What was her purpose??? Why didn't he just answer the phone when I called and skip her out of the process, giving me 8 more minutes of my time today that now I will never get back...

 

[Glumix]

If I gained anything from the women who I interact with in the course of my everyday life, then I would agree with you, women would be controlling me and I would be loosing (the benefit. ) But when I really stop and think about it, 93% of them do me no good. Let me give another example that just happened this morning:

My hot water heater took a cr@p last night. It will need to be replaced. I called the plumber I have dealt with for years about an hour ago. Told the office woman about the symptoms I am seeing, the type of water heater I have, model, size, etc. And I told her that I wanted to schedule a service call. She puts me on hold. Comes back. Asks me a few more questions. About 8 minutes on the call so far now, not a big deal at all. So what does she do? Transfers me to a man. I figured maybe she would pass my information to him and say "see you tomorrow at 10" or whatever... What am I smoking.. She didn't give him my name, any info, anything! I had to tell him everything I told her all over again... SO, why in the FVCK did I talk to her for 8 minutes? WHAT DID SHE DO???? What was her purpose??? Why didn't he just answer the phone when I called and skip her out of the process, giving me 8 more minutes of my time today that now I will never get back...

Well, that's not a woman problem. It's an administrative problem. You have no idea what happened. Perhaps the man asked her to ask you those questions...

 

[Yewki]

My hot water heater took a cr@p last night. It will need to be replaced. I called the plumber I have dealt with for years about an hour ago. Told the office woman about the symptoms I am seeing, the type of water heater I have, model, size, etc. And I told her that I wanted to schedule a service call. She puts me on hold. Comes back. Asks me a few more questions. About 8 minutes on the call so far now, not a big deal at all. So what does she do? Transfers me to a man. I figured maybe she would pass my information to him and say "see you tomorrow at 10" or whatever... What am I smoking.. She didn't give him my name, any info, anything! I had to tell him everything I told her all over again... SO, why in the FVCK did I talk to her for 8 minutes? WHAT DID SHE DO???? What was her purpose??? Why didn't he just answer the phone when I called and skip her out of the process, giving me 8 more minutes of my time today that now I will never get back...

We all have bad experiences, but you got to take the good with the bad. You're trying to block out all the good because of a little bit of bad.

 

[l_e_g_e_n_d]

Sounds like a baby in hot bathwater who blames the bathwater instead of his decision to make the water hot.

 

[Glumix]

But still, I can relate to you. I am currently struggling with the same kind of thoughts.

And yeah, when I give a look back at my life, the very best moments I had were with friends or alone. There was some women around but never a girlfriend.

It's REALLY hard not to become cynical and paranoid. But I have the power to exclude the bad and keep only the good and to not build my life over generalizations, bitterness and anger, even though that means excluding "93%" of women. I do not want to give all the crazies any power over my life anymore and that goes as far as not generalizing my opinion about women. This is how I try to feel really powerful and indifferent.

I know I cannot speak to my friends about that. I cannot speak with anybody about society, not even my mom. I will just laugh when people around me will get divorced or dumped. That will be my little revenge. But if they want to reach with me they can. My ears are wide open and if they ask for advices I will give them and try to help them.

 

[logicallefty]

But still, I can relate to you. I am currently struggling with the same kind of thoughts.

And yeah, when I give a look back at my life, the very best moments I had were with friends or alone. There was some women around but never a girlfriend.

It's REALLY hard not to become cynical and paranoid. But I have the power to exclude the bad and keep only the good and to not build my life over generalizations, bitterness and anger, even though that means excluding "93%" of women. I do not want to give all the crazies any power over my life anymore and that goes as far as not generalizing my opinion about women. This is how I try to feel really powerful and indifferent.

I know I cannot speak to my friends about that. I cannot speak with anybody about society, not even my mom. I will just laugh when people around me will get divorced or dumped. That will be my little revenge. But if they want to reach with me they can. My ears are wide open and if they ask for advices I will give them and try to help them.

I don't laugh at people getting divorced or dumped if they are people I like. But I do think to myself "man I could have helped you, but you wouldn't have listened anyway". A good friend of mine just went through an ordeal with his wife of 15 years and got some text evidence that cheating was inevitable. But now they have kissed and made up. And whenever I slightly even hint anything like "keep your guard up", "protect yourself", etc., he gives me the jaded and cynical card. Reality is becoming a voodoo subject anymore. I guess almost cheating wasn't enough, she needs to actually do it in order for him to wake up.. Its just a matter of time.

Appreciate all your replies, fellas, no matter if I agree with them or not.