backbreaker
Master Don Juan
I'm wired a tad differently than most people... I hate holidays. I hate holidays beucase I can't work. When I can't work and get **** done, I feel like utter ****. And I know i start feeling like **** when I refuse to go to sleep, it's like I'm telling myself I need to accomplish something. I feel very ****ty, I didn't get anything done today, I'm not the guy hat can just sit around and play and **** all day long that's not me.
so you guys are the benefit of my ****ty day beucase I have to do something and the best thing i can do at 12:30 at night is to give advice here.
we spend a lot of time here talking about how to get women interested in you how to get numbers, but we don't spend annoyware near enough time talking about how to manage women, how to go from date to date and keep interest, how to handle success.
I want to talk about the trap that I think gets most guys. Even when I first got here and i started approaching anything that moved and got numbers and plates, it still got me eventually.
That simply being, is that most guys have never.. i don't want to say never but not often, have been successful wtih women and thus, dont' know how to handle success with the opposite sex. what happens AFTER you have sex and she (gasp) likes you?
"well you date her"
wrong. wrong. wrong. wrong. wrong. wrong... wrong.
let me put it in a different set of terms. let's say you are looking to buy an new car. you go tot he auto strip, you get out and you find a dealer he takes you to the new sudan line they have, you test drive it and you like it. it rides smooth, the price isn't killer, he says he can get your payments very low, it's got a nice audio system... it's got the new car smell.. do you buy it right then?
of course not (i hope not lol). Because you are smart enough to understand that it's the rush of driving a new car that is exciting you, not the car itself. it might be the car for you, but you need to do some research, you need to test drive other cars, you need to price compare.
Women and Car Dealers
in this sense, a woman who has decided that she likes you and a car dealer have the exact same mantra.. don't let em get off the lot under any circumstances, without buying a car.
both understand that the more time you have the less it works in their favor. the more time you have the more you can find things wrong, flaws, cobwebs, hidden take, issues, they both push for the impulse buy.
the girl you met 2 weeks ago and you have sent out with and she has dated you and you ****ed her and she comes over the next night again and she ****s your brains out and then does it again, i mean, it's good that she is obviously into you, but she's trying to get you to make an impulse buy.
Once a girl decides she likes you she is going to do everything right. she's going to cook, she's going to clean, she's going to call she's going to have a lot of sex and while all these things are good, I want her to do these things beucase this is the type of woman she is, not beucase she wants me to buy some **** lol. a woman who does things beucase she wants to lock up a catch and a woman who does **** beucse it's her character, are 2 totally different things. the first one will do the things that she is doing only as long as you haven't signed on the dotted line
So what should you do?
Simple. Do your due diligence. Don't' be in a rush to sign your exclusiveness over on the dotted line. I mean that figuratively. Me personally i have 5 questions I ask myself about a girl that has advanced past standard plate stage.
1. how is she with money
2. what are her good and bad habits
3. what's the worst thing she has ever done
4. how is her self esteem on a daily / normal basis
5. do i feel rushed/pressured
until i can fully and thoroughly answer the 5 questions, it's not even up for debate.
so you guys are the benefit of my ****ty day beucase I have to do something and the best thing i can do at 12:30 at night is to give advice here.
we spend a lot of time here talking about how to get women interested in you how to get numbers, but we don't spend annoyware near enough time talking about how to manage women, how to go from date to date and keep interest, how to handle success.
I want to talk about the trap that I think gets most guys. Even when I first got here and i started approaching anything that moved and got numbers and plates, it still got me eventually.
That simply being, is that most guys have never.. i don't want to say never but not often, have been successful wtih women and thus, dont' know how to handle success with the opposite sex. what happens AFTER you have sex and she (gasp) likes you?
"well you date her"
wrong. wrong. wrong. wrong. wrong. wrong... wrong.
let me put it in a different set of terms. let's say you are looking to buy an new car. you go tot he auto strip, you get out and you find a dealer he takes you to the new sudan line they have, you test drive it and you like it. it rides smooth, the price isn't killer, he says he can get your payments very low, it's got a nice audio system... it's got the new car smell.. do you buy it right then?
of course not (i hope not lol). Because you are smart enough to understand that it's the rush of driving a new car that is exciting you, not the car itself. it might be the car for you, but you need to do some research, you need to test drive other cars, you need to price compare.
Women and Car Dealers
in this sense, a woman who has decided that she likes you and a car dealer have the exact same mantra.. don't let em get off the lot under any circumstances, without buying a car.
both understand that the more time you have the less it works in their favor. the more time you have the more you can find things wrong, flaws, cobwebs, hidden take, issues, they both push for the impulse buy.
the girl you met 2 weeks ago and you have sent out with and she has dated you and you ****ed her and she comes over the next night again and she ****s your brains out and then does it again, i mean, it's good that she is obviously into you, but she's trying to get you to make an impulse buy.
Once a girl decides she likes you she is going to do everything right. she's going to cook, she's going to clean, she's going to call she's going to have a lot of sex and while all these things are good, I want her to do these things beucase this is the type of woman she is, not beucase she wants me to buy some **** lol. a woman who does things beucase she wants to lock up a catch and a woman who does **** beucse it's her character, are 2 totally different things. the first one will do the things that she is doing only as long as you haven't signed on the dotted line
So what should you do?
Simple. Do your due diligence. Don't' be in a rush to sign your exclusiveness over on the dotted line. I mean that figuratively. Me personally i have 5 questions I ask myself about a girl that has advanced past standard plate stage.
1. how is she with money
2. what are her good and bad habits
3. what's the worst thing she has ever done
4. how is her self esteem on a daily / normal basis
5. do i feel rushed/pressured
until i can fully and thoroughly answer the 5 questions, it's not even up for debate.