Avoid getting attached?

[runningonice]

I have a lot of sticking points, but my big one is that I become easily attached. If a girl is even relatively pretty to me (not even "my type") but someone whose appearance I don't mind and would hit it if I had the chance, I get hung up on her when hanging out with her. What happens, I guess, is that I think "Wow cute girl who's being genuinely nice to me and she isn't displaying any obvious ***** symptoms" (materialism, AWisms, overtly snobby, etc.) so because she's good looking and not a complete tool, I think "Wow I found someone special" even if she isn't and has obvious personality flaws.

The good news, of course, is that I've identified the problem. I just miss a woman's company and the sexuality, but don't want the AFC attachment on my part, and am not sure how to control myself.

 

[f283000]

You control yourself by reminding yourself that there are billions of women in this world for you to make love to.

When you go out by yourself or with buddies practice flirting with women, making eye contact with women you see. Say a couple random "hi" to random women, chat up some random women.

If you act like if you are friggin married to your gf then your mind will be framed by the way you act and you will only think of her. You will start believing the lie that she is special and shes the only one you should have eyes for.

Instead try acting like if you are still single when you're not with her.

Trust me on this. It does wonders just to strike up a conversation with a random woman and meet a new person. It helps to keep your mind healthy. Oneitis is cured by talking to other women.

 

[Poonani Maker]

I have a lot of sticking points, but my big one is that I become easily attached. If a girl is even relatively pretty to me (not even "my type") but someone whose appearance I don't mind and would hit it if I had the chance, I get hung up on her when hanging out with her. What happens, I guess, is that I think "Wow cute girl who's being genuinely nice to me and she isn't displaying any obvious ***** symptoms" (materialism, AWisms, overtly snobby, etc.) so because she's good looking and not a complete tool, I think "Wow I found someone special" even if she isn't and has obvious personality flaws.

The good news, of course, is that I've identified the problem. I just miss a woman's company and the sexuality, but don't want the AFC attachment on my part, and am not sure how to control myself.

My answer? You NEVER really know what a woman is really like until you fvck her. Until you fvck her, don't start loving her.

 

[runningonice]

I don't think this would be a problem if women put out sooner. It's inevitable if you're getting to know a woman and she's cool (or seems cool) that you're going to develop feelings. This is why I'd like to just get to the point. If you don't know anything about the woman other than that she looks good naked, only a fool would get attached then.

 

[blackwolf]

My answer? You NEVER really know what a woman is really like until you fvck her. Until you fvck her, don't start loving her.

now that's true. you feel like you know them a whole lot more after fuking them.

 

[Poonani Maker]

now that's true. you feel like you know them a whole lot more after fuking them.

Yep. I had a Terrible weekend last week, fvcking an 18 yr old girl from out of town. It was like Halloween came early this year. I won't go into details yet, because I'm meeting a more mature chick (24) in about an hour so I've got to get prepared. The 18 yr old's pvssy was kinda smelly but I liked it and it was the ONLY good part of my entire weekend. Fvcked a fattie too, that really sucked, it was just awful.

I aim to fvck this 24 yr old tonight. I will report. She's sweet, but horny. I have a feeling she's will like it "slow" and I will give her what she wants.