"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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avg looking guy need high end car to get hot girl

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do you think if your an average looking guy you need a high end car-lexus, bmw to get a decent to hot gf, but if ur a good looking guy you won;t need the high end car to get the hot gf. lol thats what a friend of mine said. what do you think.
"do you ever see avg looking guys with hot gfs in cheap civics, ah no most of them are in high end cars like bmw, lexus, with their hot gfs, but if your a good looking tall guy and personality then u don;t need it, but u doin;t have personality and ur just avg looking guy"

btw this guy is avg looking too and he just drive a kia. lol i'm like look whos talking hey.

oh and he also said "ah how would it feel to pick a girl up on a date in a older car (1990 civic) something like that, "
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I've yet to see a girl give it up to a guy just because he owns an Audi or a BMW.

Besides, unless you do your pickups at a Sonic, how the hell is she going to know what you drive when you're talking to her at a bar/club/store anyway?
 

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it doesn't matter what kind of car you drive. The "hot gf's" are with guys that exuberate self-confidence and that lives in HIS own world. Although it DOES help to DHV to roll up in a nice car(not letting her know what you drive) before you make an interaction with her. It shows that you are stable, you can handle your finances, and makes her wonder how many girls you've been with if she is highly superficial. But, it does not mean you need a nice car to pull attractive women.
 

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high end car = money = social status = survival value

i'm being analytical i know....

so yes, car matters. remember it.

looks in itself is a value.

looks = apparent social status = survival value

but mind it, there's one thing that actually lingers in the dark and perhaps the most important thing, the MAN himself. his personality, his attitude, the vibe he gives off, how he carries himself. this is the groundbase that the look and money depends on.
 

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erm...how would a girl know what car you have when you meet her at the bar/club? Same with money.

Guys talk about this money crap far too much. Money will help you immensely if you wanna pick up a golddigger as you drive down to the beach, wearing your Versace clothes. But in a normal social interaction (like a bar), how does any of this stuff matter?

It might be different if you're hanging around these stupid clubs where golddiggers go to get some of Mr. X's estate
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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joe45 said:
do you think if your an average looking guy you need a high end car-lexus, bmw to get a decent to hot gf, but if ur a good looking guy you won;t need the high end car to get the hot gf. lol thats what a friend of mine said. what do you think.
"do you ever see avg looking guys with hot gfs in cheap civics, ah no most of them are in high end cars like bmw, lexus, with their hot gfs, but if your a good looking tall guy and personality then u don;t need it, but u doin;t have personality and ur just avg looking guy"

btw this guy is avg looking too and he just drive a kia. lol i'm like look whos talking hey.

oh and he also said "ah how would it feel to pick a girl up on a date in a older car (1990 civic) something like that, "


Please tell us all your not really 26???





PIMP
 

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Tell you what. I'm not ugly by any stretch of the imagination, but I'm not Brad Pitt either. In fact, I'm pretty average in looks.

I don't have a car. Or even a license. Before I got my DUI, I drove a 1988 Mercury Grand Marquis (actually, a pretty sweet ride if your in to the whole big-body pimpin' thing) But I'm still out there banging cuties. I'm not going to say its ALL about your attitude, but it sure does count for most of the game. Even though I don't have a lot of money, even though I'm a normal man, and even though there are richer alternatives than me all around the city I still find myself successful. Wherever I go, I carry myself like I'm something special, because I know that I am. I know that I'm going places in life, and any of these ladies should be killing people to get the chance for me to let her go along for the ride.

Those ugly dudes with BMW's? It's true that some of the cases may be due to Gold-Digger's, but a lot of the time what the woman is attracted to is the guys AMBITION. Before this guy was getting girls, he learned on of the most important lessons a man can learn --- It's all about you. He worked, and he hustled and he earned himself that Mercedes as a status symbol. Some of these guys are the most confident, secure people you will ever meet. With good reason too, they know damn well that their future is volumes brighter than most mens will ever be. Women are attracted to three main things: Happiness, Confidence, and Ambition. I promise you that these men have an abundance of all three that most men on these boards do not know.
 
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shaunuk said:
erm...how would a girl know what car you have when you meet her at the bar/club? Same with money.

Guys talk about this money crap far too much. Money will help you immensely if you wanna pick up a golddigger as you drive down to the beach, wearing your Versace clothes. But in a normal social interaction (like a bar), how does any of this stuff matter?

It might be different if you're hanging around these stupid clubs where golddiggers go to get some of Mr. X's estate
I agree with you, Women respond to confidence and personality , not what type of car your driving
 

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The hot chicks go for guys who know how to spell-check and use the shift key. Strange but 100% true, who knew?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Years ago I bought a Lexus when most guys my age were driving their mom's Camrys and minivans. Nope, no girls ever flocked to me. Your mileage my vary.

Maybe my mileage would have varied if I went with BMW? =P.

Considering buying a Porsche in the not too distant future. I'll report back with the results.
 

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magickarl said:
Tell you what. I'm not ugly by any stretch of the imagination, but I'm not Brad Pitt either. In fact, I'm pretty average in looks.

I don't have a car. Or even a license. Before I got my DUI, I drove a 1988 Mercury Grand Marquis (actually, a pretty sweet ride if your in to the whole big-body pimpin' thing) But I'm still out there banging cuties. I'm not going to say its ALL about your attitude, but it sure does count for most of the game. Even though I don't have a lot of money, even though I'm a normal man, and even though there are richer alternatives than me all around the city I still find myself successful. Wherever I go, I carry myself like I'm something special, because I know that I am. I know that I'm going places in life, and any of these ladies should be killing people to get the chance for me to let her go along for the ride.

Those ugly dudes with BMW's? It's true that some of the cases may be due to Gold-Digger's, but a lot of the time what the woman is attracted to is the guys AMBITION. Before this guy was getting girls, he learned on of the most important lessons a man can learn --- It's all about you. He worked, and he hustled and he earned himself that Mercedes as a status symbol. Some of these guys are the most confident, secure people you will ever meet. With good reason too, they know damn well that their future is volumes brighter than most mens will ever be. Women are attracted to three main things: Happiness, Confidence, and Ambition. I promise you that these men have an abundance of all three that most men on these boards do not know.

yea but i knew guys at my previous job at budget rental car who were wash bay guys and they drove nice modded preludes, and another guy driving a c240 4 matic like 03 yr. i mean and they only do service agent car washing job. he wanted to go to school to do aircraft and another wanted to do policing. so what does taht say
 

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#41 said:
I've yet to see a girl give it up to a guy just because he owns an Audi or a BMW.
I've seen it happen many many times before.

To the original poster, put it this way.

Women always want to trade up in life. She wants a guy who is either more attractive than her, richer, or has an extremely cool personality that draws her in.

A car is instant FRONT. She sees that you are rich. So is an Armani suit with diamond rings on you. She will give it up much easier when you are well dressed and look good and when u have a nice car, than otherwise.

Can you get laid driving a honda civic? yeah, of course. It's not that bad of a car actually.

Does a BMW help in getting laid? Yes, it does. IF YOU CAN AFFORD IT. I would not go out of my way to buy a BMW and spend $1000 leasing a month (working double-time or whatever)... just to try to get laid.

If you are lucky and you are good looking and dress well, she already perceives you as being higher value than her. Then any average car will do.

Sh1t... I don't even have a car because it's not practical for me and I get laid riding the subway or taking the bus. And I get laid.. A LOT.
 

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Metaphysical said:
A car is instant FRONT. She sees that you are rich. So is an Armani suit with diamond rings on you. She will give it up much easier when you are well dressed and look good and when u have a nice car, than otherwise.
Isn't that a goldigger?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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joe45 said:
do you think if your an average looking guy you need a high end car-lexus, bmw to get a decent to hot gf, but if ur a good looking guy you won;t need the high end car to get the hot gf. lol thats what a friend of mine said. what do you think.
"do you ever see avg looking guys with hot gfs in cheap civics, ah no most of them are in high end cars like bmw, lexus, with their hot gfs, but if your a good looking tall guy and personality then u don;t need it, but u doin;t have personality and ur just avg looking guy"

btw this guy is avg looking too and he just drive a kia. lol i'm like look whos talking hey.

oh and he also said "ah how would it feel to pick a girl up on a date in a older car (1990 civic) something like that, "
Honestly man, I've seen some UGLY dudes.. and goofy dudes.. w/ no cash.. with some HOT ASSED girls! Why? Because they have game.

So your looks are really irrelevant... it's more what you do w/ what you have. =] The rest is game.
 

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Buy a lexus. Give it to the girl. She deserves it cuz she's beautiful. That will make her soo horny for you. TRUST ME. Girls don't care about you, they care about the shiny stuff you own.

And get famous. Because gurls love famous guys and if you're not famous you're not good enough. Be like hugh hefner.
 
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