"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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thedude4242

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I always get ugly to average women and women who are committed in a relationship who are good looking. I get hot women checking me out and stuff and talk to them but it always seems like the other ones are always after me. what is the problem? and Im not ugly b/c I am a cute handsome dude.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Good looking women ALWAYS have a BF or potential BF. Ugly women are the ones who are single
 

thedude4242

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sometime I think women have too many option when they are good looking and they dont know what to do. the thing is how to be that potential b/f or guy who is hitting it.
 

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If they are checking you out, chances are you probably are decent looking, i ma guessing what is lacking is substance. Can you engage them in an interesting conversation for long enough. What have you got to bring to a date other than your good looks?
 

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sodbuster said:
Good looking women ALWAYS have a BF or potential BF. Ugly women are the ones who are single
And even the ugly ones got potential BF's!

If the girl is interested in you, she won't bring up a BF, real or fictional.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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