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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Average money saved up for the Average 21 year old?

warrior1

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Does anyone have a good estimate of how much money a normal 21 year old have about assuming he doesn't work yet?

I heard people say the average 21 year olds net worth is negative because of all the loans he has to pay back.
 

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You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

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Giovanni Casanova

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The average 21 year old that doesn't work yet is most likely in college, which means that they likely have a negative net worth due to college loans, credit cards, etc.

If a 21-year-old doesn't work yet and is not going to college, then they are most likely a lazy bum and their savings account will reflect that.
 
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