"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"Average looking" is a subjective term

mahon83050

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I am tired of reading things on the internet about hot looking people and average looking people, etc. E.G. "When hot guys date average looking women, they leave nothing for us average guys."

Isn't there a happy median in between average and hot?

In my definition, average means you are not ugly, but there is nothing really attractive about you either. You are kind of just there.

Do some people only consider those that are extremely attractive as "hot" and everyone else average or ugly?

IMHO, I see things like this:

Ugly- You are ugly and noticeably so. Most people will look at you and say, man that guy/girl is ugly. MOST young people DO NOT fit this category.

Average- You are a step above the ugly person, but there is nothing really attractive about you either. ALOT of young people fall into this category.

Above Average/Attractive- You are not extremely attractive, but you are attractive looking. You have some minor facial flaws. ALOT of young people fall into this category.

Extremely attractive/striking- Everyone takes notice when you walk into a room, because you have the perfect body/face. You are genetically blessed. These are the people who are models, are private dancers or are on soap operas. E.g, Natalie Portman and Brad Pitt. MOST people DO NOT fall into this category.

Do you agree with the way I see things, or do you have other theories?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DJDamage

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mahon83050 said:
Do you agree with the way I see things, or do you have other theories?
In the end it comes down to what do you think of yourself. Who gives a sh1t what others think of you? can you actually read their mind?!

This obsessive view of what is hot and what is not, its what chicks do. Some chicks will find you good looking and some will not. Live with it.
 

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In my definition, average means you are not ugly, but there is nothing really attractive about you either. You are kind of just there.
Inaccurate definition: The average person (in most populations) is fairly attractive (imo)! To be unattractive-looking, you must be either fat or genetically unlucky.
 
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