"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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average joe: joes strike back

david90

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it's a battle between looks and charm. Any comment?

I think the avg joes are way to clingy and it's hurting their values.

I also think that Anna, the girl, is not as sweet as she seem. I think she's a liar and does a lot of acting.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Create Reality

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If I wanted to see reality I'dd walk outside, I don't need to see it on the TV too! Jeez whatever happened to all the good TV shows of the mid 90's. Writers today have their heads up their asses and their half as original as before.

I watch TV to ESCAPE reality, not to see joe get blown.
 

spider_007

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I saw the first episode - I THOUGHT IT WAS REALLY FUNNY :crackup:
Just the look on the face of the high-maintanence Attention hore when the guys came out was priceless. That gurl may have curves in all the right places, but that is all she is good for. I WOULDN'T EVEN CONSIDER having a relationship with her past a one night stand.

I'd say guys have lot more problems then just being to clingy.
 

sux2bu

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That girl they're competing for is butterface ugly. I've broken up with girls that look better than her.
 
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