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Average girl tried to neg my friend

ricorico

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We were at a friends house today all hanging out. There were a few cute girls there too. A friend who was there is a little older than the rest of our group. But he's ae good looking guy.

Anyway when I walked in with him, we had noticed one of the least cute girls looking his way. He sort of ignores he because he's trying to hit on on of the cuter girls.

Later he comes to me half laughing half puzzled. The average girl had gone over to talk to him. As they're talking she tells him he looks older than the rest of the group. He's 27. Just a few years older than most of us, but most people can't tell. But this girl ask him if he's 40. He says no. She says "Oh,are you older than that?".

He's not in the PUA community and as he told me this I explained what a neg was and I think she was trying to use it on him.

She obviously knew right off the bat he was way above her league and tried to bring him down to her level by implying he looks old . Are girls getting into the neg game too?
 

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The Sperminator

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I don't think negs work on guys. Well it doesn't work on me at least. I hate when girls try to neg. Most of the time it just seems like they are insulting me even though they might be kidding. I mean every now and then I find it cute if they do it right but most of the time they over do it and it starts to get on my nerves.
 

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Like I've said before girls neg and DHV all the time. I almost think Mystery or whoever first suggested the neg, copied it from girl game.
 

ricorico

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Neg did'nt work on my friend . Later she tried to fish for his last name and his MySpace address .

I do believe Negs work on some people. But that is mainly with ones who have self esteem issues. The same type who obsess over people of opposite sex who ignore them instead of moving along. That happens with men too. Not at all isolated to just women.
 

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A neg could work on a guy, I guess. Although I don't think it could ever build attraction in a guy the way it can in a girl. Any neg that plays off someone's real insecurities is just going to piss them off and make them not want to talk to you.
 

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saber

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in case you didn't know neg=teasing. Its just a fancy word over something socialy savy people do every day and something everyone is familiar with.

IMO negging a girl without a good situation as it happened to ur friend is pointless and has a similiar effect.
 

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Good comeback woulda been-
- hey you look pretty old. So how old are you?
- 2007
 
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