"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Avatars

Would you like an avatar to your profile?

  • YES

    Votes: 17 54.8%
  • NO

    Votes: 14 45.2%

  • Total voters
    31

Hot Ice

Master Don Juan
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I don't remember anyone made a poll about this..
Avatars..

Yes or No?

They are little pictures every user could have to left margin next to age, posts counter, etc.

now vote...

Notice:
40x40 jpg pic doesn't suck your bandwidth!

Say your opinion if ye like. ;)


EDIT:
Am I bored? Maybe.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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oakraiderz2

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Bandwith shouldnt even be a problem. I know another forum with about 8 times as many member which means more post. They also have 20+ forums, not including sub-forums. There's my 2 cents.
 

diplomatic_lies

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I can only imagine the sort of avators you guys might choose.
 
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