"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Avatars

Would you like an avatar to your profile?

  • YES

    Votes: 17 54.8%
  • NO

    Votes: 14 45.2%

  • Total voters
    31

Hot Ice

Master Don Juan
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I don't remember anyone made a poll about this..
Avatars..

Yes or No?

They are little pictures every user could have to left margin next to age, posts counter, etc.

now vote...

Notice:
40x40 jpg pic doesn't suck your bandwidth!

Say your opinion if ye like. ;)


EDIT:
Am I bored? Maybe.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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oakraiderz2

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Bandwith shouldnt even be a problem. I know another forum with about 8 times as many member which means more post. They also have 20+ forums, not including sub-forums. There's my 2 cents.
 

diplomatic_lies

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I can only imagine the sort of avators you guys might choose.
 
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