"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hot Ice

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I don't remember anyone made a poll about this..
Avatars..

Yes or No?

They are little pictures every user could have to left margin next to age, posts counter, etc.

now vote...

Notice:
40x40 jpg pic doesn't suck your bandwidth!

Say your opinion if ye like. ;)


EDIT:
Am I bored? Maybe.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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oakraiderz2

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Bandwith shouldnt even be a problem. I know another forum with about 8 times as many member which means more post. They also have 20+ forums, not including sub-forums. There's my 2 cents.
 

diplomatic_lies

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I can only imagine the sort of avators you guys might choose.
 
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