Hello I am trying to buy a car from autotrader.com and most of the people that I email saying I am interested reply saying they are outside of the United States. I've gotten emails mostly from peopel saying they're in the UK accompanied by some emergency issue (son had heart attack, father died) and why they are selling their car. I even got an email supposedly from athens, greece. My question to all of you is should i trust these people because it seems very shady to me and I don't want to pay for something and get screwed. Im asking here because you guys are all like me and I respect your opinions. Thanks in advance.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
spider_007
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i was under the impresion that auto trader had offices (they have an office in my city) go there and talk to them.
I personaly have a problem buying cars period (in person). imagine the trouble you could get into by buying one over the net or from a catalog.
I personaly have a problem buying cars period (in person). imagine the trouble you could get into by buying one over the net or from a catalog.
Derek Flint
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9 out of 10 times, it's a scam.
Usually involves a Cashiers Check.
Do a Google search.
Usually involves a Cashiers Check.
Do a Google search.
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In my area, we have catalogs specifically designated to buying and selling cars. People have to pay to have their ad put in print.
You're better off going this route. Scammers want to make money for nothing. They'll pretty much stay away from things like newspapers.
You're better off going this route. Scammers want to make money for nothing. They'll pretty much stay away from things like newspapers.
diablo
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If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is. Sorry, but you're not going to find a McLaren F1 for $9,000 USD with free international shipping... speaking of, it costs $600+ just to get it shipped from one part of the US to the other (I know because I've been pricing cars on ebaymotors) - can you imagine how prohibitive the cost would be to transport a vehicle overseas?
Another thing, never give your money away with no form of recourse - to do so is asking to be taken advantage of.
If you've decided that the thousands of dollars it will cost to ship the car here is acceptable, and you think you've found a great deal on a car, why not spend a few extra hundred and hire an attorney in that area to go verify the car exists and the owner is indeed selling it before you make any sort of commitment? If it's a scam you're just out a few hundred bucks instead of the thousands upon thousands you'll lose if you don't follow this advice.
Best bet? Keep your shopping in the US, where you can actually fly or drive to see the car before buying it...
Another thing, never give your money away with no form of recourse - to do so is asking to be taken advantage of.
If you've decided that the thousands of dollars it will cost to ship the car here is acceptable, and you think you've found a great deal on a car, why not spend a few extra hundred and hire an attorney in that area to go verify the car exists and the owner is indeed selling it before you make any sort of commitment? If it's a scam you're just out a few hundred bucks instead of the thousands upon thousands you'll lose if you don't follow this advice.
Best bet? Keep your shopping in the US, where you can actually fly or drive to see the car before buying it...