Automatic Upgrade

[bigneil]

Has anyone else noticed that once you date a girl of a certain quality level, that all other women of that quality level automatically become available?

For this reason we should always pursue the hottest women.

 

[zenaddict]

it`s because you think that the hotter women are special

no they aren`t they got the same "software" as the ugly women, it`s because once you start to hit on women, you give yourself permission to do that with other women as well

it`s not real, it`s in your head, the thing stopping you was always in your head

and a real man assumes attraction, because he is the active principle in the relationship, a man acts a woman reacts, so if a woman only reacts why are you waiting for them to beg you to fvck them?

that`s not a masculine attitude!

 

[bigneil]

This phenomenon applies to age differences too. Once you date a woman a certain number of years younger than you, older women are easier even if they too are much younger than you.

I think it's the manner by we approach them. How long we hold eye contact. When you are confident enough they assume you have had success at that level. Your words and actions will be smooth. You can use their tendency to make superficial decisions against them in this case.

This work against you also. If you have never dated a girl of a certain beauty level you will be afraid to make a move and she'll sense it.

 

[Zarky]

For this reason we should always pursue the hottest women.

Disagree. Most guys can't get the hottest women and if they only "pursued" the hottest women they'd get frustrated and give up. You have to work your way up the ladder.

You don't get out of college and become CEO of a Fortune 500 company immediately. And you don't go from being a shy chode who can't speak to women without sh*tting himself to banging 10s overnight.

Gotta work your way, just like in any aspect of life. You start out with 5s, get yourself a little harem of them, then trade the lowest girl for a 6, then move up to all 6s, then 7s, 8s, etc. Takes years, unless you were blessed with having enough money, looks, or fame that you can shortcut that progression. Most guys can't.

 

[BeDJ]

Disagree. Most guys can't get the hottest women and if they only "pursued" the hottest women they'd get frustrated and give up. You have to work your way up the ladder.

You don't get out of college and become CEO of a Fortune 500 company immediately. And you don't go from being a shy chode who can't speak to women without sh*tting himself to banging 10s overnight.

Gotta work your way, just like in any aspect of life. You start out with 5s, get yourself a little harem of them, then trade the lowest girl for a 6, then move up to all 6s, then 7s, 8s, etc. Takes years, unless you were blessed with having enough money, looks, or fame that you can shortcut that progression. Most guys can't.

The right place at the right time. Are you banging 7's yet?

 

[Zarky]

Oh hells no. I'm at 6s. Still got a long way to go. I think I'll be able to max out at 8s some day, possibly in 10 years. But I do have some handicaps such as being perpetually broke and homeless. But I'm working on it. I'm also pretty lazy too. I bet the average guy starting at the young age of 25 and having to bang 4s and 5s could be banging 8s regularly by the time he's my age.

Keep in mind we're not talking about having one HB8 girlfriend. If I wanted that I could have that, even in my sorry situation. I'm talking about having a rotation of HB8 women and screwing new HB8s on the first or second date at latest.

 

[BeDJ]

You should write a book on your 10+ years of online dating.

 

[VladPatton]

Fück, I'd rather pay a call girl than try to bang an HB4 gronk with a quarter-hard-on! LOL

 

[GotED?]

Poor suck'as striving for HB6+ are only foolish enough to encounter a BPD-prone hottie that will destroy your inner-self and maybe pop out a baby for you while you are at it.

There's absolutely nothing wrong with HB6-HB7 women, there's something to be said for a woman who has stable emotional and mental prowess over a hottie who has a sh!tty attitude and self-entitlement issues that puts on on a 'she's gets real old' type of experience.

Don't fall for the Holy Grail (getting a HB8+ in your life) trap. If you must, prepare your mind and emotions beforehand and don't get fooked.

With respect,

Exodus

 

[Zarky]

You should write a book on your 10+ years of online dating.

It really wouldn't be that interesting.

 

[bigneil]

By hottest women I just meant hottest available to you. You don't want more than 1 point over your own looks, in general. Plus there is something about being with the second hottest one that gives you the right attitude.

 

[twentee]

I don't settle for less than 10's, in their 20's, and I mean looks, brains,competence and attitude. That's why I gave up on US women, long ago. Of course exceptions exist, but I ain't bothering to wade thru all the guys such US women have sniffing around them.

 

[Zarky]

^^^^You can either settle or go without. You've chosen the latter.

 

[Zerro]

Has anyone else noticed that once you date a girl of a certain quality level, that all other women of that quality level automatically become available?

Not necessarily available but they certainly do become more approachable. Unfortunately the ones below that level don't tend take the hint and leave you alone but that can be understood as women tend to be delusional about their own league.