I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
It's not good when a service advisor does not have strong automotive knowledge. The Service Manager at my independent shop used to turn wrenches. Finding a female mechanic is rare.
I agree with all of this. I wasn't an engineering major but I've heard similar sentiment expressed about a lot of female engineering students. Female students in general are not the strongest in the STEM majors.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
That was hilarious.
That would be a ridiculously bad shopping experience for the women going to that ladies clothing boutique. I am able to imagine some women getting in a bad mood about that blue collar man not being good for their feelings or being unable to be as helpful or as knowledgeable as they would like.
You're less likely to see who the mechanic is at the repair facility.