"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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autistic child after you get married?

picard

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have you notice a rise in autism in kids?

how do you guys feel when you have a autistic child after getting married?

I wouldn't be able to raise an autistic child. I would have to give up the child to adoption.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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My son is in the autism spectrum. You just need to put them in therapies at an early age and they will be just as good as their peers and even excel past them.
 

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This post has to be a joke

I have never felt anger from a purely ignorant post on this site, until I read this one. I clicked on it because I have an autistic son, and I thought this would be a thread by a guy asking for help. You, sir, are a chickensh*t.

That being said, any child of your's might be better off by being placed for adoption. I will not waste any more time on this post or any other that you submit, but I will ask that you vent your moronic thoughts on one of the many NPD or ASPD sites on the Internet.
 

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I have had many encounters with families that have been challenged by this disorder. The common factor among them is that they all rise to the occasion and do what they must.

I don't know if the OP has a child or not but when look in your child's eyes and they in yours for the first time - you will realize at that very moment that you will do whatever it takes.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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It depends on how autistic they are. If they are high-functioning with Asperger's or something, then they can be worked with and maybe even have a 'normal' life. Still, the resources you'd have to pour into them is a lot more than for a functioning child, so adoption isn't a bad idea.

A low-functioning autistic child has no real hope at a future. It's a miserable life for them and a drain on resources that you could give to another child. Adoption or exposure works in this case.
 

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picard said:
how do you guys feel when you have a autistic child after getting married?
Well, most of the time when I have an autistic child after getting married, I usually treat him or her the same way as when I have an autistic child before getting married, or even when marriage doesn't occur, either, before, during, or after producing the autistic child.

I treat them kind of like parking spaces. (not that I park on top of them mind you) sometimes you get a really good one up close and you don't have to work very hard, but other times you have to park really far away and it seems like all that walking is going to cut into your shopping time, but what the hey, what else are you going to do.

Generally speaking thought, the more autistic children you have, the easier they are to deal with.

Just like the many other things in life that seem to be much more difficult that you expect. Because you aren't a total whiny bytch deuchbag still crying for mommies tit, you learn to deal with the tough stuff.
 

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Dear Picard,
Oh look Old chap,no need to get so worried,you are just unaware of what Autism is all about,the problem with Psychological conditions is that once a syndrome is named they sure as hell find people to fit it....Look at Aspergers,they even lumped Einstein into that one...But I don't wish to downgrade the seriousness of Autism I had a Son who was thus diagnosed,never spoke till he was three he is a Qualified Diesal Mechanic now and travels the World in good solid jobs...Downs Syndrome is another thing,that is one sad business.
 
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