"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Australia - chicks/party
- Thread starter madgame
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Cairns
Port Douglas
All of those have plenty of women and nightlife, there are other places with plenty of women but quieter nightlife, which I'm assuming you're not looking for.
. I was just wondering if Surfers Paradise (or any of the other two u named) were anything like that. oh and..one more question (dont need 2 open a new thread for this): Is australian english (except for some special australian expressions of course) a lot different from american english? I mean..of course its not "a lot" different as its still the same language, but do you guys say things like "gotta" instead of "I have (got) to" for example..?lol just asking...Im not really worried or anything just curious.
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
barbeque - barbie
breakfast - breakkie
It is windy to today - bit windy
If you are fluent with American English then you won't have a problem in Australia - after all, we get American TV/movies here too!
Australians have a few words that Americans don't recognize, but communication won't be a problem.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I went for 10 nights 13th->24th december 2003 (from memory).
In that time i lay 3 girls.
I went with 4 friends, 3 of them lay a girl each. the one who missed out is about 140 kgs pure fat.
We were soft. I'd been coming to this site a little, but not very long. and if i knew what i know now, i'd have lay 6+ girls i think.
I had 2 in the first 2 nights!
in the time i was up there i had a ticket for the "miduri party week" (which changed its name to the triple M party week).
this ticket cost $100, and u got T-Shirt/toga/stubbie holder etc. + entry into 10 events.
mainly themed night club nights.
beach party
toga party
ball room
80s night
etc. etc.
also a horse race meet.
i assume you're looking to come out here.
keep in mind that australia's summer starts in december.
I strongly recomend the party week. although we didn't go to every event, we did go to a few, and it was well worth it.
from late november->late december (possibly more even longer?) they also have many party cruises.
when u cruise around the streets in the day time people will say "Hey come on this party cruise" it was $35 and you cruise on a boat for a few hours drinking and dancing and what not. lots of people, lots of fun. again, free t-shirt + crowd photo.
the girls are hot, being that surfers paradise is right on the beach.
you want to stay close to "Caval Avenue" which is the hottest street there.
i think i stayed about 800 metres away and strolling home after a big night was no problem because it was always still warm.
ALSO! make your moves kind of early.
the last night i was kissing this chick in a club, we left together at 5AM. i wanted to bang her on the beach.
TOO BAD THAT ITS SUNNY AS HELL AT 5AM! she wouldn't come back to my place cause she had work in the morning (local girl) and she said, "we woulda had sex if u took me home a couple of hours ago."
I won't make that mistake again.
I'd be happy to tell you more, but this is prob enough.
PM me if u want.
EDIT: about the australian/english language.
watch a couple of episodes of neighbours. i'm sure you won't have any problem with any of the words they say.
no one i've met from over seas (english speaking countries) had any problems communicating with me.
another EDIT: i also hear great keppel island is AWESOME around new years. thats off the coast of queensland somewhere.
Oh and about the language..I know I really won't have any problems..I mean I can understand british english without a problem too (if they dont have too much of an accent)...I was just curious about a few things but I guess Ill see when Im there..thanks tho
jiza101
Master Don Juan
wrong. you don't want to be 21 on schoolies. my mates went up to surfers last year as 21 year olds. they got called toolies and couldn't get any play.
these kids are warned of older people going there all through the school year.
the week i spoke about (triple M party week) is perfect. it actually still falls in the schoolies week schedual, but the crowd is ever so slightly older. (schoolies week goes for a month. odd i know.)
also, i wouldn't go to byron bay.
its basically surfers or bust.
i'd imagine byron bay is just NSW's version of phillip island, i've done schoolies at phillip island twice.. week.
http://www.partyweek.com.au/images/partyweek2003/70s1.gif
i've got 3 or 4 pics with this pimp from partyweek when i went! (just been checking out the website)
http://www.partyweek.com.au/
thats the website of this.. doesn't appear to be the triple M party week.
the 2003 party week was featured on "Wild On" which if you're not familiar, is a travel show going specifically to party places.
2003 is the year i went, i never knew wild on was there!
maybe i'm on TV!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.