"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Australia, Brisbane

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Calling all DJ's in the sunshine state, preferbly Brisbane city. :cool:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hey guys
from brissy

wing with me sometime, you too ben...be in touch.

0405216783

make you's all welcome
 

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Hey lads,

Me and a mate are goin to brisbane after uni exams around 5th dec. Man I cant wait!!! We r driving from townsville to brisbane and checkin out the scenery. This roadtrip is an "Anything Goes" kind of roadtrip for about 2 weeks so we cant really plan on anything.

Can any lads from brisbane give some kind of advice about brisbane and all the good things about. Im pretty much a beginner with the DJ skills while my mate is a natural DJ (MILFhunter at age 15)

PM me or send email to [email protected]
 

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Sorry to bring up such an old topic, but im in brisbane as well, wouldnt mind someone to wingman me, show me the tricks of the trade etc.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This thread is almost 10 years old, so I thought I'd update it, given that I'm after Bris wingmen and the posters to this thread, have probably all moved on.
 

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Yeah I am on the Sunshine Coast, I am about the same age as the guys who originally posted. Have read a bit about game, but yet to really test any of the material in a structured way. I have another mate who is keen for a night out sarging, kind of looking for a way to start.
 

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I'm in twmba (obviously), but I come to bris on weekends to run game. I would love to hook up with some skilled wings, bcoz my regular boys are clueless :p and stubborn too. They are just skeptical about new information and don't want to learn anything.
 

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I would be keen to hookup or at least chat. I am sometimes on the Brisbane Fraternity forum. I have read a bit and am looking for a place to start. My phone number is 07 54938764, my name is Edwin.
 

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KL70 said:
This thread is almost 10 years old, so I thought I'd update it, given that I'm after Bris wingmen and the posters to this thread, have probably all moved on.
lol

this is so funny.

Ive been a long time away. Thought I'd check in. I've been married in the meantime.

lol

Fair few girls back in the day. Always found myself in something a bit more concrete with women, who usually wanted to see me again.

___

Well, guys. I remember those days fondly, had a heap of fun.

Maybe I will hit the town with you guys. I go alright..... hehehehehe.

It was always about choice with me. Choice to go out with a girl and choice to leave her, not feel like I had to stay. As sad as it was, we ended a long relationship.

Thats all way in the past now. Wow, thought I'd check the forum. And this THREAD IS STILL HERE LOL

0403513970. hit me up
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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020204 said:
I would be keen to hookup or at least chat. I am sometimes on the Brisbane Fraternity forum. I have read a bit and am looking for a place to start. My phone number is 07 54938764, my name is Edwin.
hey mate, I am not really looking to teach any guys by the way....

but how is the brisbane fraternity at the moment?
 
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