"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Austin, Tx

Celadus

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Anyone in Austin, TX?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Celadus said:
Anyone in Austin, TX?
I'll probably be in ATX this summer. I lived there for three years when at UT, great city for sarging.
 

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Any suggestions on where to go? My family is pretty well connected here but they are in the "popular" 30s to 40s group and I don't know anyone my age yet.

Thanks
 

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Go to 6th street (downtown), it's just great. I used to go to "The Library" and "Aquarium". Also there are some nice venues around the UT campus, like "Cain and Abels", "Hole in the Wall", "Crown and Anchors" or "TX Showdown".
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If anyone wants to do approaches downtown let me know. (I'm a UT student.)
 

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I'm not living there but I was in Austin last January/February. I was going down to 6th st. about every night. It's packed with girls Thurs-Sat. I think most of the post-college age people go a block down to the Wharehouse Dist or something?

Austin has to be one of the best places for picking up girls.Well especially if you like brunets and Latino. Lots of hot girls and they're not as stuck up as some parts of the country. Not too mention you don't have to deal with sub-zero degree weather in January there. I don't think ever dropped below 31 at the worst.
 
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