Attractive women and male haters

[Belmar2009]

I think this is something that comes with the territory and there is nothing you can do about it.

By attractive I mean any girl that is a 6.5 or higher......

By "haters" I don't necessarily mean AMOGS or guys that will physically start with you, but more envious or dirty looks.

Those of you who want EVERYONE TO LIKE THEM, STOP!!!!!!

It is impossible, if you want to be successful with attractive women, male haters are inevitable.

From the ex-boyfriend that is not over her, to the other guys that like her, to the guys out at the bars who wish they had your looks or the guys that hate on you because they think they are better looking than you and are envious you have an attractive women on your arm.


I had a situation tonight where I noticed atleast one guy hating on me at a wedding. He did not say anything or start ****, but I saw it in his face. We were competing for the same girl it seemed.


SO: ACCEPT HATERS ARE PART OF THE TERRITORY WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTIVE WOMEN.

DON'T EXPECT EVERYONE TO LIKE YOU; IT IS IMPOSSIBLE.

JESUS CHRIST HIMSELF COULD NOT EVEN ACCOMPLISH THAT.

 

[Allurre]

Just don't become amongst the haters

There will always be those who envy people with success.

We've all been there.

 

[PeeGee]

The most nicely I can put this is that if you are a hater, there's no way of knowing the situation behind the scenes. Here I'll elaborate.

summary: One time when I was out at the bar, a guy says he can beat me up


A few months ago, after cheap wing night, I went to another bar with two girls. One is a girl I had fooled around with a few months back and are still in good terms with, and the other is my roommate. Since I am not monogamous with either of them, a few hours in, most of the wallflowers and girls dancing has watched me move back and forth between several partners -- and since two of them know me, they see a girl just walk up and dance with me several times. 'Social proof' I think you theorists call it.

I also tend to attract attention to myself due to my dancing - I'm just used to it by now.

I eventually went back to dancing with the girl I had messed around with. Hot and heavy. And so this guy starts to dance battle me when I moved away. I give him this 'what are you doing?' look and he announces that he can kick my ass. I'm thinking 'I can't believe this' and smile at him and just say 'No you can't'. He tells me to take it outside and I shake my head -- the entire time smiling back at him. He tries to stare me down and I'm not having it, so he backs off. I shrug and go back to dancing.

I'm not saying that the way I handled it is the way you should handle it. Some of you might theorize that saying 'no you can't' is baiting him to attack me. I was completely confident that 1) he was just talking trash and 2) only an idiot would attack me essentially unprovoked -- he would be arrested so fast.

To me being a hater is just a waste of your energy and resources -- you should be focusing on getting your own girl rather than finding a reason to hate other guys. Other girls will not notice you due to lack of initiative, and if you start anything you just look like a tool.