"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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attractive girls with attractive guys, that's it.

Cremasta

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There probably are leagues, but they are determined by lots of things.
Easiest way is to think of it like a school report card... some of the subjects being:
- Looks
- Money
- Power/Authority
- Sense of Humour
- Game
- Social Circle
- Fitness

There's plenty more, but you get the idea.

Give yourself a score (A - F) for all of them and then get your grade average.

This is why you might see guys who are getting D's in Game, Sense of Humour and Fitness; but are getting A's in Money and Power. Bumps them up to maybe a 'B' average, so they can score class women even though they seem like absolute douche's.

Most you can improve on, some you can't... and the weighting will depend on what a woman looks for the most.

My 2 cents.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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pyros said:
So I was having a look at some female friend of mine FB and from there I was cheking some of her cutests female friends profiles, and I always see the same pattern:

- When it is a very cute girl, she is always in a relationship with a guy who is also very good looking, and more often than not, he is also wealthy. So in all the pictures you see they are having a drink in a super cool place, or on a boat, or on some exotic trip, dressing very nice etc, also surrounded by more wealthy and attractive people.

I have other female friends on FB that are not that attractive, let's say HB6's and therefore their boyfriends are not as good looking, and not as wealthy as in the previous cases I mentioned above.

So eventhough many guys here or in other PUA forums say that if you want a hot gf you can use game etc...as a rule attractive girls get together with good looking guys that come from wealthy families. I see it everyday.
However I just see very rarely a very cute girl with a not so handsome guy, this is the exception, and it seems everybody here would like to be that exception but...reality check: it is not the case.

So in my opiniones leagues DO EXIST and very attractive girls can always choose from the best of men, they do not need to 'settle' for something less shiny. It does not matter much if you're super funy or super smart, or you tease her like a king, at the end of the day if she's hot, she wants a guy as hot as her, and with higher status (money) if possible.

It's tiring and sad. I'm more or less good looking but not as attractive as to be with an HB8 for example...not wealthy either lol.

Don't you agree?
Good looks + money = confidence (sometimes)
I have a cousin who is tall handsome, a lawyer, rich and he ainte gettin none. The guy is in his 30's and I question whether he has even been laid. Comes from a rich family. What else can I tell you there are at the very least exceptions to the rule. Facebook is all bull**** so you can't believe what you see on there.
 
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