"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Attractive & can't get a girl need advice

Tae

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Ok I'm 18 and a senior about to graduate.. i have not dated for about 6 years, i have been in only 1 serious relationship.. i don't know whats wrong i take advice from my closest guy friend.. he gets alot of females but the thing is he just want them all for their body and things like, i want a relationship not to dog females.
I'm a attractive guy, very tall, and does sports so im in good shape. i feel depress about not having a girlfriend i don't know why it hasn't always bothered me but now as i walk around and see many couples it makes me happy but at the same time i feel lonely.

I feel a little better about writing this i just need some proper advice
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Thanks hope it gives me what im looking for
 

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I don't even feel down no more thanks for directing me to this
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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