mackdaddy27
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By the interaction we have with a female she is able to ascertain a mans value. ( & social proof and other factors exist but ...leave that aside for now)
Now MM teaches us to show higher value than her by using ****y+funny frames, qualifying her, breaking rapport, teasing her, social proof shows her that you are high value guy...Why does MM tease her , ****y funny her, frame her etc because the underlying subcommunication is that she is as if a "child" , and you are the adult, which in and of self implies a higher value in the interaction. Tyler calls some of his targets "your like my little sister"
RSD takes the' I m the alpha I dont care I have pure confidence' path
There is one other path that is not mentioned but IS the Most Important of PUA.
You see, the very nature of pickup is to show her that you Are High Value Male. That you are not another women or a ***** that you have value as an alpha man.
YOU MUST DOMINATE the interaction with her. This is a fight. Like a boxing match, your proverbial jabs and knockouts are you attempts to rein and take over the power in the relationship. It must be the case that your role is to USURP the power in the relationship ( at least initially AND USURP any power from any other competition)
WHY IS THAT IMPORTANT DO YOU ASK?
Because That Is the Very Essence of What an Alpha does ! ...Whenever he is in an interaction
he takes control and ownes it. Once she feels the power of a man taking charge , it will get
her attraction BUT
THIS ATTRACTION SWITCH IS NEVER MENTIONED IN ANY PUA LITERATURE , but that is the very essence
1...An Alpha is not going to get into a *****ing contest with a women, he's not a women, thats beneath him.
2...Always make the decision in the interactions. NEVER let her decide things for example
you give her choices, and picks one if not you give her more choices but YOU DECIDE what
are the choices. You Control The interaction.
3...This is a Biggie. When you are interacting with her, and she startings using you as an emotional tampoon, you stop her right there, because first of all..if she can say whatever she
feels like it and can get away with it, she will realize that you are not at core a REAL man, that
you just here for the sex. You see, your AN ALPHA man, youR NOT A WOMEN To be her
emotional confidentant. IF she starts *****ing on you, walk the **** out and tell her to talk
to you when shes calmed down. She may say **** to you, you need to point that **** out
and stop it in its tracks. Prove you have a backbone..this is what is meant by control
the conversation. YOU MUST DEMOTRATE YOU HAVE A SPINE
4...Never do favors for her or buy her gifts, or buy her drinks. this is PUA 101. Even if you can
afford it, just make her pay a little .she has to feel that your not paying for her time, she is paying
for your time.
5...You Must Do this. Start small and start giving her small orders that she was going to
do anyway. Like if shes reaching for a drink say "go ahead, help yourself" WHY is this important?
Because subciously it feeds in her mind that you are in charge. THis is very important to do
because it feeds her the message.
6...Again, never get into an Argument with her and talk to her illogical state even if shes
getting blaming you for something thats not your problem.
7...YOU Must physically Dominate her, say put your arm on her back as you walk her past a room
make the physical happen. A FAILURE TO ESCALATE HER TO SEX IS A FAILURE OF YOUR
ALPHANESS. By showing her physically further communicates to her the message that you are
dominating her.
8....Body Language of Alpha: As others have said, find that 1 thing that gives you unbounded confidence, and communicate your alpha/domination of her via body language alphas have a relaxed body posture, take up alot of space, they talk loud, slowly, and never lean into a person . Never Chase her when she walks away. Dont take things too seriously , dont ask too many questions trying to get rapport with her. In stead make statements until she talks.
Make sure you qualify her.Alpha don't give a **** about the girl, dont begin to qualify yourself until she does. Bragging, talkign too much is qualifying, giving them too much direct attention via BL
9....You must do something that demotrates some confidence. Some actions that prove to her that you are a man. For example, one guy stoped a babe with her mom right there
So the bottom line is I feel that MM, RSD, goes about things in a Round About Fashion and my form of PU is the most direct, most result focused PU out there.
__________________
keep the chains moving
Now MM teaches us to show higher value than her by using ****y+funny frames, qualifying her, breaking rapport, teasing her, social proof shows her that you are high value guy...Why does MM tease her , ****y funny her, frame her etc because the underlying subcommunication is that she is as if a "child" , and you are the adult, which in and of self implies a higher value in the interaction. Tyler calls some of his targets "your like my little sister"
RSD takes the' I m the alpha I dont care I have pure confidence' path
There is one other path that is not mentioned but IS the Most Important of PUA.
You see, the very nature of pickup is to show her that you Are High Value Male. That you are not another women or a ***** that you have value as an alpha man.
YOU MUST DOMINATE the interaction with her. This is a fight. Like a boxing match, your proverbial jabs and knockouts are you attempts to rein and take over the power in the relationship. It must be the case that your role is to USURP the power in the relationship ( at least initially AND USURP any power from any other competition)
WHY IS THAT IMPORTANT DO YOU ASK?
Because That Is the Very Essence of What an Alpha does ! ...Whenever he is in an interaction
he takes control and ownes it. Once she feels the power of a man taking charge , it will get
her attraction BUT
THIS ATTRACTION SWITCH IS NEVER MENTIONED IN ANY PUA LITERATURE , but that is the very essence
1...An Alpha is not going to get into a *****ing contest with a women, he's not a women, thats beneath him.
2...Always make the decision in the interactions. NEVER let her decide things for example
you give her choices, and picks one if not you give her more choices but YOU DECIDE what
are the choices. You Control The interaction.
3...This is a Biggie. When you are interacting with her, and she startings using you as an emotional tampoon, you stop her right there, because first of all..if she can say whatever she
feels like it and can get away with it, she will realize that you are not at core a REAL man, that
you just here for the sex. You see, your AN ALPHA man, youR NOT A WOMEN To be her
emotional confidentant. IF she starts *****ing on you, walk the **** out and tell her to talk
to you when shes calmed down. She may say **** to you, you need to point that **** out
and stop it in its tracks. Prove you have a backbone..this is what is meant by control
the conversation. YOU MUST DEMOTRATE YOU HAVE A SPINE
4...Never do favors for her or buy her gifts, or buy her drinks. this is PUA 101. Even if you can
afford it, just make her pay a little .she has to feel that your not paying for her time, she is paying
for your time.
5...You Must Do this. Start small and start giving her small orders that she was going to
do anyway. Like if shes reaching for a drink say "go ahead, help yourself" WHY is this important?
Because subciously it feeds in her mind that you are in charge. THis is very important to do
because it feeds her the message.
6...Again, never get into an Argument with her and talk to her illogical state even if shes
getting blaming you for something thats not your problem.
7...YOU Must physically Dominate her, say put your arm on her back as you walk her past a room
make the physical happen. A FAILURE TO ESCALATE HER TO SEX IS A FAILURE OF YOUR
ALPHANESS. By showing her physically further communicates to her the message that you are
dominating her.
8....Body Language of Alpha: As others have said, find that 1 thing that gives you unbounded confidence, and communicate your alpha/domination of her via body language alphas have a relaxed body posture, take up alot of space, they talk loud, slowly, and never lean into a person . Never Chase her when she walks away. Dont take things too seriously , dont ask too many questions trying to get rapport with her. In stead make statements until she talks.
Make sure you qualify her.Alpha don't give a **** about the girl, dont begin to qualify yourself until she does. Bragging, talkign too much is qualifying, giving them too much direct attention via BL
9....You must do something that demotrates some confidence. Some actions that prove to her that you are a man. For example, one guy stoped a babe with her mom right there
So the bottom line is I feel that MM, RSD, goes about things in a Round About Fashion and my form of PU is the most direct, most result focused PU out there.
__________________
keep the chains moving
, except those two points ^^, which verge on wife beater...