"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Attraction Plain and Simple!

Smooth Player 056

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I see that still lot of guys cant understant so basic things.

what is attraction???

Attraction is a FEELING, a feeling we have in body when we want something. its just an emotion!
and just like any other emotion it goes away with a time. Just like pain, pleasure..you name it. It comes and goes.
thats why when you attract girl, and you take a #, anf you dont create rapport with herm you het famous >FLAKE
she is into you (you created feeling in her body, she goes home, takes a shower, takes a nap.. tommorow morning...what does she feels for you?? LOL...
NOTHING!!!
all feelings aer coming from emotional brain( Hemisphere), and those things you cannot change, besides evoke them, and control those feelings.

how to create attraction? aka : what girls find attractive?
probably answer from 80% of woman if you ask them would be>
-confident guy
-guy who knows what he wants
-guy thats a challange
-interesting to listen
-sense for humor
-Masculine (in actions not real muscles)
-probably good looking( but they dont caer about this if guy has things above)
-Advantures
-guy who understand her
-little bit mysterious
-Unpredictable
now, if you can recognize yourself in list above, probably chicks really like you. If not, you need to work on those things.

when a chick finds a guy like that, she is going to be attracted towards him big time.
go through list of guys who are good with woman, you will find out that they have all those presonality traits.

-Brad pitt..
-Mystery
-Me (Smooth Player 056)
-whoever

we all demonstrate those things to woman.only difference is method of demonstration we use..

but lets get back to topic ATTRACTION

there is one thing on list above thats missing, maybe you noticed it, maybe not. Its Ultimate aphrodisiac, thing that womsn were attracted to sine humans exist.
and that is : POWER

there is nothing bigger!!

chicks are attracted to power like fly's to ****

Interesting, but if you subcommunicate power to chicks you subcommunicate all that list above in a sec.

Power :
In caveman period it was : Muscles
Later some weapons
then Napoleon and rest of crowd ( Emperor's)
today,?? hmm... money,car, status, etc..etc..
but good news is, that behavior subcommunicates power, not strictly money, and car.
ever saw guy with good car, but behaving like louzer?? needy louzer??
I have few of them next to my house.They are so far away from being a MAN, they are so far away from ATTRACTION!

Smooth Player 056
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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